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Why most married man think their affair is not a mistake until they get caught?
Mgodat
- Some married men do not feel guilty at all and they are just sorry they got caught. Other married men may have gotten in over their heads in an affair and did not know how to get out of it so when caught they feel guilty.
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 12y agoYou know the idea of fidelity to one person marriage is an idea that is foisted on us by our culture. fair enough if you could actually openly discus your feeling about this one way or the other, but it is just not that way. The relationship you have with a woman or man and what you say regarding your feelings of love and your acceptance of monogamy are virtually scripted. Such expressions as I can think of no one but you. you are the light of my life I wile love only you etc have to be said or else you may not get past the front door on a relationship. The fact is however that the urge to form a loving responsible relationship with a woman is a natural one and men and women can form long lasting loving and responsible relationships with each other without feeling obliged to Cary out the artificial rules set out by a culture that has been formed as part of a religion.They don't feel guilty because they love their pardner and still take the same care and responsibility for them regardless of the fact that they still enjoy the odd relationship with others. They don't recognize the legitimacy of the system. It must be cept in mind however that this only applies to men who would feel the same as they do if the shoe was on the other foot.
I think the men who don't have affairs are the same ones who would feel guilty if they did.
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∙ 12y ago- Men generally do not think their affair is a mistake (a few only) and it is a gutless way to resolve marriage problems. Most men cheat because it is sneaky; they know it and some men may feel guilty and some will not and blame their spouse for all their misgivings. Immature husbands once caught cheating are severely uncomfortable at being caught and some may try to justify their actions by blaming their spouse. The spouse should never enable their cheating husband because what they did was wrong! The wife has the control over the situation and needs to make it very clear to her husband she is not enabling his behavior and he either goes to marriage counseling to try and save the marriage or the wife will either file for separation or divorce.
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Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
If a married man gets caught having an affair knows he was selfish and hates himself 4 it would he ever get over it and if so how long would it take?
Will this married man get over it?..yes he will no doubt about it. When married men do have an affair, who they are is selfish. If he is not selfish, why would he think of crossing the path of affair, knowing that his hurting his wife and maybe his kids. There are two things that married men have selfish is one of them. Second is his needs. Do you think if this married man is getting what he wanted from his wife, he will get out of his way to find another woman's friend? But when it comes to feeling hatred, I think not because they are man. Maybe they will feel bad and he might hate himself for what he did, but that will only last a few days because he got caught.
Married man's friend wants an affair?
If you think its right do it!
Can an affair stop at kissing?
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How many married people have another affair with the same person from the first affair and why?
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Husband admits to cheating?
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Is clare Tomlinson from Sky sports married?
no she isn't married. Apparently she had a affair with Bryan robson but i don't think it is true
Can you stay married and have an affair?
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Where are the best places to have an affair?
There are no good places to have an affair as it is not good to have an affair. The meaning of the word affair is "A usually secretive or illicit sexual relationship" This also usually involves someone who is either married or engaged to be. Whoever you are asking the question, think of the consequences.
Does a married man ever think about his ex mistress if they were good friends before the affair started if they slept together 20 times before getting caught cheating and if so how often?
Yes. A married man will think about his ex mistress. He will also think about his friends in school, the first girl he dated, the team he was on, the first job he had, and a whole lot of other things in his past. I have no idea how often he will think of any particular thing.
Did Sheree J Wilson have an affair with Chuck Norris?
OK I think that they are not married they were only together on a TV show called WALKER,TEXAS ranger that's all I know for sure There Married On Show And Real Life.To.
How do you stop thinking about the married man you had an affair with?
Just Remember That hes Married And To Him its Exactly What You Said An "Affair" nothing Serious B: It's hard to tell, especially if the married man loves you and you love him too. But unfortunately instead of thinking about this married man think about how much you helped him betrayed his family. We can't just think about our self because you had a wonderful time keeping secret and hiding your relationship with him. from his family.
