because he doesnt' want to hurt the ex-girlfriends's feelings cause he still kind of has feelings for his ex but now he likes the "unknown" girls charm, looks, smarts, etc. or something dum guys look for cause it's my opinion that they aren't mature enough to handle love so don't trust them alot until you people are older.
normally the guy isn't yet sure of what he really feels for the other girl. On the other hand, he doesn't want to hurt his ex-girlfriend again.
There can be two possible reason for this. May He is sacred of losing you. Or he is confused about his feelings.
Feelings can often be complicated. Having feelings for another person isn't necessarily bad, however, acting on those feelings while still with your boyfriend would be considered wrong.
He is probably just afraid that his exgirlfriend would get jellous and do some thing to his girlfriend, if she found out who his new girlfriend is.
it could possibly ruin it with that other person; it also depeneds on how long you have had these feelings for him or her. :)) good luck person!!!!!!AnswerIt could. If you have strong feelings for a person, whether you are together or not, I think you would be unable to fully give yourself to another person and would hold back on the relationship.
Every relationship is different, and there are no universal signs of falling out of love. If you are having doubts about your relationship, the best thing to do would be to share your concerns with your partner.
If this is your current boyfriends best friend it would be best to take some time to yourself to sort out your feelings as you cannot possibly be commited to one while having feelings for another - especially his best friend.
She may or may not be, but it isn't her business. It's between you and her friend, and the best she can do is be supportive, if not of you then at least of her friend. If she has feelings of jealousy she should keep them to herself; any other reaction on her part would be immature and insecure.
Its because she may be having an emotional prang at that time and misses him and still not able to forget him as a special person in his life and still hopes he would make her the part of his life again.
The best thing you could do is ask him directly as he is the only one that can answer this.
Ambivalent or Bittersweet. For those of us living in the upper midwest, I would add the word-"November".
That would depend on if you want to act on those feelings and especially how you feel towards your girlfriend. If you are not sure and confused of your feelings the best thing you could do is to let your girlfriend go and take time for yourself to sort your feelings out as you cannot be in a committed relationship while having feelings outside it. Don't jump right into another relationship especially when your not sure where all your feelings ly.
he doesn't want to hurt your feelings
Answer You don't. How would you like it if the shoe was on the other foot, and he was trying to figure out how he would ask your ex-girlfriend out. Not well I'd expect. Try getting another girl to go out with and don't ruin a good friendshp because of a woman.