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Why would a husband allow another woman to email his wife and hurt her before their divorce is final?

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2005-11-24 19:55:27
2005-11-24 19:55:27

Because he's a jerk and is sadistic or, he may not know this woman is doing this to you unless you have told him. I saw a good movie the other night called, "The Diary of a Mad Black Woman" (excellent movie) and it was about a pretty young black woman who married a rich black man that lived in a beautiful mansion. He found a white mistress, brought her into his home right in front of his wife on their Anniversary and dragged his wife across the floor and threw her out of THEIR HOUSE! I don't want to tell you too much about this movie in case you want to see it, but of course the wife was angry and wanted to get even with him and she got her chance. She was in her families home and her aunt was there and this old black woman said something worth writing down, "IF YOU DON'T FORGIVE HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE TO YOU, THEN FORGIVE YOURSELF, HE STILL HAS TOTAL CONTROL OVER YOU!" I have seldom heard wiser words. So hon, WASH THAT MAN RIGHT OUT OF YOUR HAIR AND THAT "B" ALONG WITH HIM!" Just so you know, I was married to an abusive husband before as well. It took 3 1/2 years to get the message. I just got angry and got out of there filing for divorce. Of course he didn't make it easy for me and he harassed me by phone, followed me, had others follow me, and I kept on fighting. I won! I ignored him, saw a lawyer and nailed his butt for harassment! I have been married to a wonderful man for 33 years and known him 38 years, so, keep that in mind and know there is a much better life down the road for you. There is a "block" on your computer on the 'tool bar' so the next time she emails you click that old tool bar and BLOCK that bag! If you are too upset to do this, when she emails you SEND IT BACK WITHOUT OPENING IT! Don't engage in what she has to say. Ignore this snip! You are the greater one here and never forget it. Although I am sure you are really hurting right now, there is peace in the future and the right man for you. If this harassment doesn't stop then you see a lawyer and slap a "Cease & Desist" order on her! She's freeze in her tracks! Good luck hon Marcy

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