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Getting a divorce is often a battle of the wills and there is hurt, anger and frustration attached to it. Some people feel they have wasted their lives on this person and are angry at themselves for being stupid or they feel dejected by their former spouse and led to believe "they weren't good enough". Wouldn't it be wonderful if we had ESP, but we don't so we make mistakes. I have been divorced and my husband cheated on me many times and I caught him. I was angry more at myself for being so stupid because there were enough warning signs even before I married this guy. I flung things in boxes and moved into my own apartment. It took me a couple of months to see what I had tossed in those boxes and I was in for a not so pleasant surprise. All our memories (there were some good ones) were there and as I went through box after box I found myself in tears and the anger swept over me all over again. Then came the wedding pictures and I became furious. I tore every single one of them up with the exception of an 8 x 10 which I used for a dart board for two weeks. Silly? I suppose so, but it helped get that anger out of my system.

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