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If you treated them badly, then they clearly are trying to heal and the only way to heal is not to see you! Try and understand her perspective, she is hurting in so many ways - from the memories of how you treated her and the break up. If you keep trying to be her "friend" she will never heal, never move on, and will hurt for a long time. Its time YOU let go, and let her go!

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Q: Why would an ex that you treated badly tell you they don't wont to even be your friend as you remind them of negative and that they feel hate for you and is this because they still adore you?
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