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A man doesn't have to be narcissistic not to get the message. Even narcissistic people can feel love, but certainly don't show it in the normal sense. If he truly loves you he may show it by hanging around you or bothering you with phone calls or, he could be lurking around to see who you are going out with. Some people just don't take rejection well. Just because you think it's over he may not see it that way. If he is really bothering you such as constantly being in the same places as you are or is inundating you with phone calls or bothering you at work and refuses to take no for an answer then form a complaint with the police. More often than not they will come back, sometimes sooner, sometimes later. Are you prepared for that? Right now he finding it difficult that you actually could have dumped him. This is quite possibly the worst thing that could ever happen to a narcissist as it absolutely drives them crazy. He will not forget this, or forgive you for it. Be real careful, they are extremly clever and extremly adept at maniipulation - you probably already know that. Their M.O. is to scheme and lure you back in with charm only to dump you so they can feel better about themselves. If he truly is a narcissist he won't do anything that makes him look like a fool. He will wait and not show his face until he has all his ducks in a row, and, oddly enough, until he feels like you have suffered enough and will welcome him back with open arms. And then, out of the blue when you least expect to see him, presto, there he is. My "N" first waited 7 months, then 6 years, then 3 years and then 2 months until she made her re-appearances.

2006-08-10 18:01:41
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