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Will an emotionally and verbally abusive man treat his future gfs better than his current one Is he more abusive to the ones he perceives to be more submissive or does not like as much?
i would love to know that for myself ive always wondered my ex use to verbally and emotionally and sometimes even physically abuse me
Will a verbal abusive woman continue to abuse in each relationship?
Generally a verbally abusive woman has control issues and she will carry them into most relationships. However, there are a few women that are verbally abusive to one or more men, but may meet a man that she is not verbally abusive to as they are better suited for each other.
Who is more abusive women or Men?
Men, because they are stronger than a women when they are a adult. It would depend on what you mean by abusive, as women can be more abusive verbally, which could result in a man getting physical. Cases where women are physically abusive, don't tend to be reported, as it is embarrassing for a man, also many believe they wouldn't be taken seriously.
Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if with a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
Are there books and videos available for verbally abusive men who want to change?
* The best way for an abused man to move on from a verbally abusive relationship is to seek counseling. Just like women, men may have lost their self respect; feel demeaned and ashamed (they are suppose to be the stronger sex) and he needs to find out why he stayed so long in the abusive relationship. Without proper counseling just like women, men can choose another abusive partner in the future and don't have the tools to tell when rag flags go up that the person they are with is controlling at best and the worst .. verbally or even physically abusive. Men have been brought up to not hit women, so it is very often hard for the man to make sense as to why he put up with the abuse for so long. Men can be victims of abuse too and they should not blame themselves.
Is it illegal to verbally abuse a man?
No, it is not illegal to verbally abuse a man, but if the man was smart he would leave. Verbal abuse can leave just as many scars for a victim as physical abuse. There are programs for abused men that they should attend and learn tools in order to get out of the verbally abusive situation. Example: If a wife is verbally abusing her husband and he decides to divorce her and he can prove she is verbally abusing him then the court could press charges against her (highly unlikely) but you would be granted a divorce.
Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if abused by a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
it is possible
What are some of the most common reasons that a man will be abusive?
He is a drunk, or a druggee, or that he is just plain a lost man, without Christ and without peace and happiness. a man can and will be abusive if he is insecure. He is controling and doesnt trust anyone. If he holds grudges he can become abusive. I lived it.
If a controlling verbally abusive man gets a different partner will he exhibit the same behaviors with the new partner as with the old one?
Yes, unless he has been through counseling or therapy.
What should you do when you have been with a man that has been verbally abusive and physically abusive within a 9-year timeframe and you have 3 small children?
well if you feel that your not getting any where by talking and discusing your problems with each other then you need to get out of the situation and come to a compromise about visitation rights where the children are concerned because the childrens mental state cant be good if they see what goes on and your mental state can't be good either to be able to deal with your children on a day to day bases
Why are black men so verbally abusive?
A part of the reason is that Black men don't see their words as verbally abusive. Why? The taunts and teasing involved in "capping" or "playing the dozens" involves quick wit and the ability to talk about someone in a stinging way that is still humorous and makes others laugh. Men often play these word games with other men and they all seem fine with it. However, when those words are turned upon women and said with the intent to bring a woman down, put her in her place, or make her feel small and insignificant, its not funny anymore. I believe the larger reason Black men are verbally abusive is their ongoing struggle with self esteem and feelings of powerlessness. Striking out with name calling, put downs, and words which attack the core of Black women's pride in their accomplishments looks education achievements and sexuality give these verbally abusive men a sense of power. What they are doing is putting others down to build themselves up. Such behavior may provide a temporary sense of satisfaction as he watches her face crumble in shame or humiliation, but in reality he is merely demonstrating how poorly he feels about himself. Finally, I think it is important to note that verbally abusive men come in all sizes, shapes and colors and are not limited to Black men. The issue is though that most women tend to date men of their own ethnicity, and therefore Black women (who interact primarily with Black men) are more likely to be verbally, physically or psychologically abused by a Black man moreso than any other race of man.
What is the meaning of the song Pick Up The Phone by musical group Falling In Reverse?
"Pick Up the Phone" is about the end of an abusive relationship. It describes a man calling his former lover to inform her that their relationship has ended, apparently because he is tired of fighting with her (both verbally and physically, as is suggested by the facial bruises). He also suspects she may be cheating on him, as he warns her not to be caught with someone else.
