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Would you give an ex that cheated a second chance and for what reasons would you give them a second chance?

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2011-09-13 18:52:10
2011-09-13 18:52:10

If I was in your position I definetly wouldn't, but that's me because if they do it once who knows if they will do it again, and somehow hide it from you so that you would never find out. If a person is low enough to cheat on you then they are not worth it, and you can do so much better. What I think that you should do is tell that person how bad you were hurt and if you really feel like giving that person a second chance then do it and tell them if it happens again then it is really over. The only reason I could see someone giving someone a second chance is if they think that person really won't do it again and they really love that person and wants to be with them. Just be careful if you do decide to give that person a second chance.

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if he cheated to be with you he would probably cheat on you so if i were you i would brek up with him when you get the chance to talk to him.

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Take the chance, it's not the worst way to break trust.Did you give him any reasons or signs to do suchh a thing? If so thenn give him a second chance, if not, then its not the worst thing in the world, but I would give him second chance.

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If you would not have cheated you would not need to know the answer to this question. Shame on you! if you've already been unfaithful then i have one saying for you if you have the balls to cheat you have the balls to break up with her and you don't say but i still love her cause if you loved her you would have never cheated in the first place jackass Every person deserves a second chance ,if you fail to remain faithful after you have been given another chance then you Dug your own hole,But at the end of the day Its intirely up to her to see beyond that you cheated.

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I would let her go the first time but second time, I would say, "GET OUT!" or "WE HAVE TO BREAK UP!"

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That would depend on what ended the first chance. If it was cheating, do some serious evaluating of his ability to be honest before considering a second chance.

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as far as im concerend nobody who cheats should get a second chance whether they are male or female! once a cheater always a cheater is my motto! if they cheat once and you let them get away with it, its likely they will cheat again. second chances will only lead people to believe your a push over. Now if its you that has been cheated on then i would ask yourself this question? could you love someone who would hurt you so easily?

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It depends on the young woman. If she has been true to you while going with you and then cheated, then something must be amiss in your relationship. I'm not saying what she did was right, but people are not 100% perfect and most people just want to be loved. I would meet with her and discuss this problem and then listen to what she says. If you feel she simply made a bad decision then give her a second chance. One day you may need a second chance in something! If she flirts with other guys and tries to make you jealous every chance she gets then by all means kick her to the curb! You deserve better than that.

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You go tell your teacher or another adult that you cheated and then tell them you understand what you did was wrong and that you would like a second chance at what you did was wrong. I hope this answer helps you because this is what I did and it worked!ANSWER:How? it will be hard and it will take you a while. The bond that you two have for each others was broken and without this, your life will be a bit tricky. All you can do is make amends to what you did and make sure that you will make this as your number one priority or else it will not be what you expect.

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Well I would probably talk to the husband first. I mean if the wife truly loves the husband she will, reluctantly, give the husband a second chance. But if it ever happens again if I were the wife I would straight away pack up my things and leave without a goodbye or second thought.

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Given the second chance, I would keep the rabbits, cats and the dogs as pet.

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If you are completely sure he cheated and he admitted it, i would leave him and tell him he can visit the baby when it is born as long as he doesn't bring the cheatee (the person he cheated with) and he can visit the baby whenever he wants for a reasonable time AT a reasonable time. If your not sure, confront him about it and if he admits cheating then i would give him one last chance because he showed his loyalty to you by telling the truth, but make it very clear it's his last chance and if he cheats again then he can be out of the baby's life . if he says no he didn't i would just believe him because if he truly loves you then he wouldn't lie.

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No never you see, I would never liked to be cheated either.

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talk to him about it. if he hasn't told you, ask him if its true hes cheating. then ask him why and how he would feel if u cheated on him. if it continues, dump him. u already gave him a chance

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most girls would but some girls dont becaue they give ou a second chance

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they feel if they had a second chance to go back and Chang it they would

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If you cheated on your husband then that means you did not love him in the first place. If you truly loved him, you would not have cheated. So in the end, basically your actions are irreversible.


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