This is worth talking over with a therapist to help you recognize the decision points. Some issues I can think of: If it happened during a separation, then the jury is out. Otherwise, if he has had affairs before, then he is going to again since past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior unless the person takes actions to change. If you have your own children and could not accept the new child, that would be a deal breaker. Finally, it depends on the strength of your relationship and how much BOTH of you are willing to work to make it healthy again. Any lack of committment by either party will doom the effort. Truly, you do not deserve a one-sided relationship. This is worth talking over with a therapist to help you recognize the decision points. Some issues I can think of: If it happened during a separation, then the jury is out. Otherwise, if he has had affairs before, then he is going to again since past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior unless the person takes actions to change. If you have your own children and could not accept the new child, that would be a deal breaker. Finally, it depends on the strength of your relationship and how much BOTH of you are willing to work to make it healthy again. Any lack of committment by either party will doom the effort. Truly, you do not deserve a one-sided relationship.
you wouldn't.
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i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
It would be wise to get a lawyer before your husband manages to hide most of his assets.
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
No. I believe a one-night stand is something a couple can work out, but if it was a long time affair and a child came of it, then it would end in divorce.
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
It means secret and is usually used when it is about something that would not be approved of. Her husband was having a surreptitious affair
She doesn't want to be with her husband. If you're the husband, communicate with her about the problem and address the issues. Otherwise it will be too late.
It could be very tempting for her after all she is only human and the husband is unable to look after her sexual needs. Needs and urges that are there regardless of being deserted by her husband.
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!