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You think your fiance secretly still spends time with his ex fiance but he says they are just friends should you worry?
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∙ 16y ago
Your concern is valid. Some people can be friends with exes, but both people have to have moved past their former feelings for eachother. It's normal to have concerns about a friendship with the ex (even if there is nothing going on) simply because many people have had a partner cheat on them with an ex, emotionally or physically.
A partner doesn't hide their time spent with a friend; they also don't leave you out of loop, emotionally and person wise, as far as that friendship is concerned. Are you ever invited to hang out with your fiance and his ex? Does your fiance allow you to see any communication that is between them? Is he making excuses for absences?
If you have made your concerns known to your fiance and he refuses to end or at the least tone down on the friendship, he is putting his need for that 'friendship' above
your concerns and the relationship. Be honest that you aren't going to tell him who his friends can be but if he choses to spend large amounts of time with the ex you are out of the picture totally. Be prepared to break up and move on, and the next time you encounter a guy who still has feelings for his ex, let that be your signal to end the relationship.
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