You were a virgin and your husband was your first you did not bleed and he does not believe that you were a virgin?

Since you are his wife, you should let him know, he should either trust in what you say or face a rough road ahead.

A relationship is hard to maintain without trust from both sides. There is no real way to go back and prove you were a virgin, but bleeding was not a way to prove your virginity either.

Some females do not bleed when they first have sex because sometimes they have no hymen; that can be from it being torn from another activity or they just never had one.