Your car has a lighter that was never used your car was running in park and you try to get the car lighter to work all and when you plugged it in the lights flickeredcar stall nowcar willnotturn over?
If the lights flickered, then a possible short circuit was causing the drain. Check the fuse box for any blown fuses. If a fuse is blown, replacing the fuse will not correct the problem. A short circuit exists somewhere within the electrical system. That has to be found and corrected, otherwise you'll keep blowning fuses.