How do you deal with a person who says I will allow you one drink?

Answer 1

You didn't give us much information to go on. If it's your boyfriend or spouse telling you this and you don't have a problem with alcohol then they have no business telling you to just have one drink and it's a controlling factor on their part. Don't take it! If you can't handle alcohol then I'd listen to the person telling you. There is nothing worse than a sloppy drunk (not accusing you of this.) That depends, is this person trying to help you not to drink for a specific reason, healthwise? If not and this person is trying to be controlling then dont go to their home anymore. If you were out dining with this person then they have no business telling you that. If you are in their home and they dont use alcohol, then that is there business but you also have the choice of not going there....