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You said the magic words, "he asked for a divorce because IT WAS HIS DECISION!" Abusive men (or women) are about complete control and you are their victim. He is not about to let you have the final say or final action in your marriage. Here is what you do: When he's not there (at work) you see a lawyer and be sure you are protected regarding any properties are monies as well as children (custody.) Then you set up an appointment with an Abused Women's Center or phone your Mental Health and they will put you onto one. Abused Women's Center will sit you down with a counselor and they will usually have you go to a transition house or "safe house" and no one (unless you tell them) will know where you are with the exception of your counselor. Once there you can stay there (with your children if you have any) and they will expect you to take the programs offered because they are teaching you tools so you will not return to your abusive mate or choose another abusive man in the future. Your are stronger than you think hon. No matter how rotten he is, you can beat this guy at his own game. I did! He's controlling and frightening you, but take that one last big step and seek out the help I mentioned. Good luck Marcy
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Iam married to a pysically and mentally abusive man we have 2 kids together can he get me for kidnapping if I take the kids out of state?
no because his mentally ill. if you took him to court then the judge wont believe him. get a divorce love, then you'll get custody as he is ill. sexy jim want my number then just ask x
Can a non mentally challenged person divorce a mentally challenged mate?
Yes, a person who is not mentally challenged can divorce a person who is mentally challenged would have to be proven they are mentally challenged), but they would have to let the courts decide in the provisions of the divorce what you would pay to help sustain the lifestyle of the mentally challenged person.
Why did Amy irving divorce speilberg?
Because he's mentally ill, addicted to drugs and homosexual
Can you divorce a mentally handicapped person in Florida?
Yes.
Can you write down your husband has been abusive to you on the divorce forms or do you have to write the corespondent has been abusive to you?
It does not matter. They are the same thing.
Why did macho man randy savage and miss elizabeth get a divorce?
He was abusive.
Can divorced women over forty succeed on their own?
Of course they can!! You women out there are just as capable as anyone else in this world. Many women feel they are worthless after they divorce from an abusive husband. However, the divorce was your first successful decision. Now that you have your relationship in the past, you can move on and pursue anything that interests you.
If a woman has 3 affairs because her husband was emotionally abusive is it justified?
No. Infidelity is morally wrong on all grounds. Shoulda just got a divorce.
What do you do if your spouse is a control and abusive husband?
You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
My husband is verbally abusive?
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
Why did Penny Chenery and John Bayard Tweedy divorce?
Penny Chenery and John Bayard Tweedy did divorce because he went against her over the decision to race Secretariat.
Did Madonna divorce Sean Penn because of his poor performance in Shanghai Surprise?
No, Madonna divorced Sean Penn because he was abusive to her. Listen to her like a prayer album and you'll get the gist from her perspective.
