Depends who you are. Such swings in mood and behavior are, indeed, typical reactions to abuse. But they can also indicate the existence of a mental health problem such as Bipolar disorder or the Borderline Personality Disorder.
Move away, inform the police.
Getting out of an abusive relationship is the same, whether you've been together 30 days or 30 years. Please read the info in the link I provided below.
As long as you are willing to leave your baggage out of the new relationship.
No! She needs to go to women's shelter and to court.
Answer The worst thing anyone can do after getting out of an abusive relationship is to get involved with anyone on a serious level if you haven't gotten proffessional help first. Some people can walk away from such things as an abusive relationship, but not many are that strong. If you haven't sought some kind of Thearipy perhaps you should as you will always feel threatened when the other person raises his voice to you. Why go through that pain, do something about it first.
yes.
It's in the best interest of everyone, most especially the abused woman who has abusive tendencies, to seek counseling for herself. She should also stay out of relationships until she has adressed why she is abusive to others. Getting involved too soon would be a rebound relationship. Even if her ex was willing to take her back (and he might not be), it's unhealthy to jump from one relationship to another in hopes of being saved from a bad situation, or believing all personal problems will end if they get with someone who once had feelings for them. The abused/abusive person must heal themselves first before they enter a new relationship.
Abusive? No. Possibly desparate for a relationship and maybe a little obsessive, but unless he puts you down or you see him treat others like crap, he doesn't sound abusive.
You are in a abusive relationship that can get extremely worse if you don't get out or he doesn't get help. You need to do what is best for your safety and staying in this relationship would be hazardous.
they were both getting ranked
Most likely, yes. First, congratulations on getting out of the abusive relationship. I hope that the friend is not also abusive, its definitely not always the case, but being abusive can have a lot to do with socio-economic factors and environment. Chances are if the two are friends they may have a lot of those environmental factors in common. I reccommend dating the other guy slowly before you let the relationship blossom into anything more serious (that is, try to wait before you get physical). This will give you a chance to get to know the friend and if your ex is going to get violent and jealous you will get to know before you have slept with his friend. Good luck.
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