it means that he still has feelings for her but is scared to tell the truth about it.
B:
Most married men that had an affair will never regret what he did. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to know if the married man regret the affair, he will not start to cross that forbidden path. Who would regret a new surrounding, new face, different scenery, new scent and most of all a new love that he never felt before.
It is always best to take a person at their word and not try to read anything into it. If he says he cares but wants to stop the relationship, believe him and go on with your life. ANSWER: I agree what the top comment is. If this is your first time to have affair with a married man, try not to believe on everything he said to you. No married man will want his mistress hate him because he put an end to his affair. But in reality he doesn't want you to make such a big deal of his decision, after all he is married and yes he will loose a lot if his wife finds out and wanted a divorce from him. So how about let it go, move on and find a man who is single and maybe learn to love you for you and for what you can do for him..
background: married man and mistress were in a long term affair that was disclosed to wife. married man and wife separated but married man and mistress remained in contact the entire time. married vehemently denied to mistress that he wanted to reconcile with wife until the wife agreed to reconcile. ANSWER: First thing first love, as you already knew that this man is married from the start. You believed to everything he told you. You could have said no to him, but you didn't. Did you think married men who are having an affair behind their wives back will tell the truth, they will not. Most married men who cheated will never leave their family, because for years they built something together, and for them to loose and start all over again will not be their option. So if they can keep their life before they have this hunger for another woman, they rather stay with the wives and have a mistress on the side. Reality check here, he didn't have to tell you that he wanted to work on his marriage. He didn't even owe you no explanation what he is doing. Being a mistress has some perks, we only a part time lover when they need us. The rest is for his wife..
well it could be 1 of 2 things:1) he wants to be faithful now and doesnt want you around to temp him or tell his wife2)he doesnt want you as a mistress anymore....he moved on
You should not be having an affair with a married woman but if you love her and she really loves you more than your husband you should ask her to divorce him! if she doesnt then she might not really love you as much as you think.
No. Because if she has kids why would she want to have anything to do with him or if she doesnt she should be commited to her husband.
If a married man is having an affair then he yes he is probably unhappy with his marriage or might have fallen in love with another person but one things for sure hes a jerk. It can often indicate that he is unhappy with himself. The affair may be no more and no less that a reaffirmation that he is still attractive to women. This is not uncommon as a man approaches middle age.
sometimes you misinterpret the signs. if he doesnt respond, he doesnt wanna talk to you.
it doesnt happen...
Because he knows it felt good
He still cares about you deeply but is to shy to tell you. You go girl
say sorry and move on
just saying the affair was for nearly 5 years,but because of distance they talked everyday,texted,etc..until the mistress ended it because of his lies..i think that makes it harder to cut ties with the mistress..