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you dont you just have to trust him or it will never work His actions will speak louder than his words. It's not enough to just tell someone you love them, you have to show it. Does he want to know and remember everything about you - from your favorite color to why you're afraid of birds, things you did as a child, etc. Does he share stories about his past with you and act goofy around you? Are you the first person he calls when he needs cheered up or advice? Does he call just to say hi? Does he try to make you feel better when you're upset or sick? Does he say it when it's not expected, just out of the blue? If you ask for his help, does he give it willingly? Pay attention to his actions. If he's not attempting to show you how he feels, than he's just saying what you want to hear. Jamie ask him to do something he doesn't want to do,see if he gets mad at himself for giving in
If he says it in front of his friends and he seems to look serious than he is for real and you shouldn't let a good guy like that slide by.
Also, we all have a pretty good lie detector built in to our brains. Sometimes it is difficult to use, but if you let all of your internal distractions go away long enough to hear what your heart is telling you, you will know the truth. Just understand that, even under the best of conditions, a few people can lie convincingly, so you have to occasionally take a chance and decide what is best for you. One important factor is how you feel about him. Hmmm???
On the flip side, understand that sometimes (regretfully, more than it should be) men talk about love when they really want sex. Unfortunately, sex is not the same for men and women and, in the usual case, women attach much more love and/or emotional connection to sex (not to say that all men don't), so if he is saying he loves you to get you to have sex, be careful. Again, listen to your heart.
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My boyfriend says he loves me but his actions only sometimes agree with that so how do I know if he is telling the truth?
you know when he gives you the warmest hugs and looks deep in your eyes and tell's you he loves you. Also when he says it in front of his friends & family
Why he says he does not know what he feels about you?
He may be telling you the truth. That he does not know how he feels about you.
How do you know if a boy is telling the truth when he says he loves you if it is a long distance relationship?
It's illegal to get involved with minors anyways. Stay away from the boys, reverand.
Is a guy telling the truth if he just recently broke up with someone else but says he loves you?
maybe
If you say to a guy was he messing or telling the truth and he says I do not knowwhat does it mean?
It means I Don't Know
If you think your husband cheated on one certain occasion how can you get him to confess?
Ask him. If he is honest and loves you he'll confess. If he says no and you have no proof maybe he's telling the truth.
What does it mean when a guy says he loves you and you haven't know each other that long?
Its either he is commited, or he want to do the nasty early and he is trying to convince you by telling you he loves you.
If a boy tells you he loves you and you've been dating for 2 months do you think that he is telling the truth?
I am not sure. I know he THINKS he is telling the truth, but it is possible he is wrong. I am thirteen, have a boyfriend, and his sister (who is also my friend) says their mom was talking about moving and he said he did not want to leave. When his mom asked if he would miss his friends, he said and I quote, "forget my friends, I want to stay because of (my name). I love her." I do not know if he was right, but we have been dating since July and it is already April. He has not come out and told me he loves me, but I really think he meant it. If your boyfriend says he loves you and he acts as if he means it as well, he probably means it. I hope I helped.
He says he loves you but he fears telling it it any one and stops you of telling anyone why?
he is embarassed of you, and I would be too.
How do you get over a guy that you know is the one but you moved and you live in diff states now and you arent how you used to be with him but still says he loves you but you cant tell if its true?
Unfortunately in your situation I would suggest just giving it time. I know that it the most annoying solution, but in amount of time eventually you will know if he is telling the truth.
If my Girlfriend says that she loves me and you love her but how are you to know that she loves you and its not just lust or infatuation?
That's what trust is. You have to trust her to tell to truth, and if you don't, you need to find out why so that it doesn't ruin your relationship.
You think your husband have a girlfriend what do you do?
Talk to him. I know its really hard to do, but if you look at him and in a not angry tone ask him for the truth he will probably tell you. And if he says he doesn't, you should know your husband by now, so youll know if hes lying or if hes telling the truth. The truth is a very powerful thing.
