Does a married man ever think about his ex mistress when he stopped seeing her because he got caught cheating especially when he sees her at work everyday but yet stayed with wife?

Answer 1

Of course. Memory is spurred by stimuli.

ANSWER:

For some yes they do, for others it's like walking in the park. For those who stop the affairs and goes back to his wife, he sure will think of his ex mistress, especially if he fell in love with the other woman, the time they spent together, places they met, restaurant they go to, music they listen to while making love, but he will never tell his wife because he knows that if she knew, his life will end right there and then.

Answer 2

Im a man, in a relationship and has never cheated. However, most if not all of my friends has had either sex or a relationship with another women. Anyway, you shouldn't really think that much about your mistress if you are in a HEALTHY relationship. If your relationship is only about cheating and playing the blame game, it would be best if you ended the relationship. However, I do not want you to believe that I told you to break up the relationship. It is just a suggestion and it is YOUR choice what you do and how you do it.

Answer 3

no he thinks about his x

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From my point of view I would think so because he didn't stop messing around with his mistress, he was caught and possibly forced to. He would not have if he was not caught. Know that and don't let that pass out of your mind. Sounds as if you deserve someone a lot better than a man who doesn't care to treat the woman he married and said was the woman of life as if she is nothing. :(. The truth being what else and who else should he being thinking about beside his wife. So if not you, he is very wrong. I hope for the best for you, you deserve better. Truthfully. :)

ANSWER:

Definitely and if your husband is telling you different, he is lying because he wants to make sure that if you don't know he will be safe. But from my own experience, I did discovered my husband's affair to a married woman he met on a dating site. For 2 and half months he called her non stop, 24/7. This man that I married was obsess towards her, he rather sleep 2-3 a night as long as he can hear her voice. But unfortunately I discovered it, so he stop. But I do know it was hard for him, not hearing her voice. He was restless and acting like he lost his best friend. So believe me, married men who got caught cheating do have a hard time forgetting the mistress.

Answer 4

Absolutely. It is extremely difficult to change people. That being said after he has broken the trust in their marriage it will also be very difficult to regain the trust. If he continues to cheat with the mistress he is the worst type of man alive and the wife should leave this sleazy loser immediately. Also, the mistress should feel like a terrible person for breaking the woman's code. However, if the wife feels she wants to give the husband a second chance and they take time to rebuild the trust they can still build a successful relationship.

Answer 5

it depends what the person is like. yes if he really cared about you.

ANSWER:

I think it depends on the married man, there are married men that become obsess towards his mistress because she is the first woman he slept with other than his wife. When and if this happens the married man become more into this other woman. There are some married man including my ex also becomes obsess with his mistress that he can't start his day without calling him first thing in the morning, and he can not go to bed without calling her first just to hear her voice.

So the answer is yes there are some married men that do missed the time that he spent with his mistress after he got caught..

Answer 6

Depends on the man, but most move on with each relationship.

ANSWER:

Yes they do, and from my own personal experience it was a bust. I discovered my husbands love affair with the married woman he met on a dating site. He became emotionally addicted towards her. This man I never knew was obsess with her. So when I caught them, he became uneasy, confused and lost. For 21/2 months all he did was talked to her 24/7 by phone without the days that he spent with her. If your husband fell in love with his ex mistress yes he will be hard to live with because of what he can't tell you..

Answer 7

• Some men may remember their mistress or they may not. Generally men want a mistress because she makes him feel alive again and at first things are grand, but it all boils down to the mistress providing a new and exciting sexual relationship with him. Most men that cheat on their wives bounce from their wives to their mistress and the men generally have no plans of losing their wives. If the married man cheating does happen to get a divorce he would want his freedom and not be so readily tied down to another woman. The percentage of married men getting a divorce to marry their mistress is extremely low.

Answer 8

it depends how close you were before you caught him cheating

Answer 9

He most likely does. He probably isn't talking to his mistress because of the fact he got caught but this doesn't mean he's not trying to forget about her.