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Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark.
Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
What else can I help you with?
Wife has an affair and gets pregnant tells her husband and the husband is wanting to work it out with the wife. Should they get a paternity test and should they file for child support?
If the man she had the affair with wants to know if it is his child then yes, a paternity test should be done. This will tell whether the husband or the man she had the affair with is the father. If the father of the child wants to be part of his child's life then arrangements should be made for visitation rights, but, he should agree to help support his own child even if she stays with her husband. He might agree to be called 'uncle' so the child will not know that is his biological father This is a difficult situation and it will take the three of you to agree as to what will happen tin the future. It is quite possible that the man she had the affair with my not want anything to do with the child. If the wife and husband feel they can work it out in their marriage they should certainly try.
Does the husband need to be served in order for the court to ask for child support from the biological father?
If this involves a case where the child is the result of an affair, and does not reside in a putative father state in which the husband would be the presumed father, he would not be served. see related article below
Your husband had an affair which produced a child his mother does not want the father to see him is he responsible for child support?
Yes, but she can wait up to 18 years to file for retroactive child support. see related question
Can you get the father of your child for child support even though your husband signed the birth certificate?
Unlikely. Your husband is the legal father of the child.
In Pennsylvania does your husbands income determine child support?
If your husband is not the child's father, it might depending on the situation.If your husband is the child's father, then yes.
How do you accept a child from your husband's affair into your family?
If your husband made one mistake in having an affair and has not cheated before that or after the affair then the child is part of him and also the biological mother. You have two options: #1 You can accept the child when and if he has custody of the child and make that child part of the whole family or #2 let him see his child if he wants too (he at least should pay child support) but see the child away from home. The decision will have to be discussed between you and your husband.
If a women is married and has an affair who pays child support?
To clarify, if you mean a woman has had an affair and become pregnant? If this is the case, and the husband is aware of it, he can order a paternity test to determine if the child is his or not. If it is not, as far as I know, the woman can go after the man who fathered the child for financial support. Support obligations only belong to the actual biological father OR a father who has legally adopted a child. There is a whole moral issue though - if the parents are staying together, does the husband want to alienate this child by not supporting it and how would he live in the same house and not support it? So really it depends on if the couple stays together. If they don't, the husband has NO obligation to support the child.
If you get married before you have the baby who has legal rights to the baby my husband or the father?
Depends on your state. In MI, the legal father of the child is the mother's husband. If your child's father is not going to be your husband, do the right thing and let him be involved.
How do you call your husband's father's brother's son?
Your husband's father is your father-in-law. His brother is your husband's uncle, but is not related to you. The son is your husband's first cousin, but is also not related to you. Your husband's uncle is your child's great uncle, and your husband's first cousin is your child's first cousin, once removed.
Can you file a lawsuit against your husband's lover if she is suing him for child support for a child born from the affair?
No. She has the legal right to sue for support if it has been proven he is the father of the child. The court can also order the male in question to take a paternity test if it is warranted.
How do you call your father's brother's son?
Your husband's father is your father-in-law. His brother is your husband's uncle, but is not related to you. The son is your husband's first cousin, but is also not related to you. Your husband's uncle is your child's great uncle, and your husband's first cousin is your child's first cousin, once removed.
Does a man always get custody when there is an affair?
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
