What should you do when you have a boyfriend but you like this other guy a lot but don't want to hurt anyone?

Answer 1

It all matters how much you really "like" your boyfriend. In all relationships one or the other is going to want to think about other people that they "like"; but if your have stronger feelings for the other boy, dont force yourself to stay with your boyfriend. Remember, every one has secrets that they can choose to keep. So if you want to tell him, go ahead. You deserve to be happy just as much as any one else does. Good luck!

Answer 2

Well it depends how much you love your boyfriend. But if you really like the other guy then break up with your boyfriend and go out with the other guy.. But be careful how you word it if you still want to stay friends with your boyfriend.

Answer 3

Perhaps it is possible for you to take some time to decide whether you need to open yourself up to casual dating, or remain in an exclusive "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship. In the event that you wish to see other people, it may be possible for you to discuss your feelings with your boyfriend and move on, or to discuss them with him as "just feelings" sharing your attraction - wondering if he too has attractions to others - and how he is feeling.

i had the same problem! i hav a boyfrend but i like someone else who liks me bak! i brok up with my boyfrieand & he askd me out aftr tat! i wantd 2 sy no but he was crying & i felt bad

Answer 4

Well than you need to make a decision don't you? You need to pick who you like more before doing anything! If you would be happier with that other person rather than your current boyfriend than you have to find a way to explain it to him. Because If you are afraid of hurting your boyfriend, so you stay with him, then you would hurt him more if he found out himself, rather than if you told him that you liked someone else. Because if he really liked you he would understand and want you to be happy. But you are in a tough spot because what if you dump your boyfriend than you find out that the other guy doesn't like you? Well than you cant go back to your original boyfriend because do you think he would want you back!?! But if you and the other guy both like each other, and you truly think that you would be a happier couple than you must go to him. I believe in following your gut instinct, and that you must do what you think is right. But just so you know it is really risky, the worst thing you can do is play with people's feelings especially with teenagers, so do what you think is right and go where you think you would be happier.

Answer 5

Brake up with him in a nice and understanding way.

Answer 6

dump your stupid boyfriend and go for the guy you love

Answer 7

Break up with your boyfriend because if you truly liked your boyfriend you wouldn't like the second guy.

Answer 8

If you have a boyfriend, but like another guy, you have to decide who you want. Be careful about giving up the boyfriend for someone who may not have the same feelings for you.