* Social etiquette is to respond to the card and stamped envelope as to whether you and your spouse are attending the wedding, but, if one is away and can't respond it's best to phone the person. Remember, at a reception the Bride/Groom has to pay per place setting so it's important to know how many people are attending the wedding reception.
It is only etiquette that when you have been given the honor of attending a wedding and for some reason you can't make it then you should send the RSVP back as soon as possible and that you are sorry you are unable to attend. Two weeks before the wedding (if you live out of town) then send the wedding gift to the bride's parent's home and addressed to the bride and groom as Mr. & Mrs. John Doe (example.)
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Wedding invitation envelopes that are inserted inside the mailing envelope are usually left blank. The outer envelope for the wedding invitation usually has the addressee and the return address of the person that will be contacted for all RSVP's.
Absolutely. You can't plan properly without knowing how many are coming. Be sure to add RSVP and specify if they may bring a " guest"[ date , not a starving artist friend ] .
I would suggest you RSVP as soon as you receive the invitation - if you are sure if you are attending or not. This way you won't forget to return the RSVP card. Otherwise, note the date that this card is due back (it is written inside the card when they need to have your answer) and mark it in your blackberry or on a calendar so you don't forget to send it back.
The average time to RSVP would usually be about a month out from the wedding. This way the couple has a chance to plan for how many people there will be at the wedding.
Usually with a wedding invitation the bride and groom will also send out an attached RSVP card and envelope where you elect 'attending' or 'regrets'. Your answer is usually required at least 4 weeks prior to the wedding date. Some couples may attach a contact number or email as a way to get in touch but we recommend a phone call or RSVP card sent in the mail as a formal way to confirm your attendance.
RSVP is the abbreviation for a French phrase, "Répondez s'il vous plaît", which means "please respond". It is usually used in conjunction with an invitation, where the host needs to know how many invited guests will actually be attending. RSVP Etiquette: If the host is a friend or acquaintance, failing to respond to an RSVP request is considered most rude and thoughtless. Commercial advertisers have taken to including RSVP requests in their mailed promotions, to which you have no obligation whatsoever to respond; commercial use of an important social gesture is gauche and inappropriate.
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No but you can call them and ask them if they are coming but you should demand an "for sure" RSVP.
Normally the name of the couple, the name of the parents, and the time and place of the wedding. There are many examples of this online as to how to word wedding invitations. Feel free to check on the sources listed below.