My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years Hes a drummer for two bands his music comes first then partying and friends how do I become one of his first priorities?

Answer 1

This is a value that people develop over time--if it is important to them. It sounds to me like you understand the order of his life, but wish you could be higher up on the list. Check in with him as to that possibility. However, if the answer is the same, then you have a decision to make, since you can't change his values for him, and a change of habits in response to your request may be short-lived.