How do you get a girl back that turned bisexual and says that she just wants to be friends but you really loved her?
Answer You must really love this girl if you have gone through the shock of finding out she is bisexual. However, don't sell yourself short and although some men would love t…o have fantasize over a "3 way" (2 women and himself) many often never do it. Never accept anything, but the best. It sounds like your ex girlfriend doesn't know who she is, what she is about and needs to find this out. She has at least been honest with you and probably doesn't want to hurt you. I would give her some space, but the fastest way to find out if she really means what she says re you both being only friends, is to date other women and see what she thinks of that. I must warn you ... if she is bisexual, then it isn't a good idea to get mixed up with this as you will be the one getting hurt (once the fantasys subside.) Good luck Marcy --- Marcy, that is absolute biphobia. Just because the girl is bisexual doesn't mean you will be hurt because of it, and it doesn't inherently mean that she is a confused or lost individual. Also, people don't "turn" bisexual...they might REALIZE they're bisexual though, in the same way gay and lesbian people realize they are gay or lesbian. It sounds like regardless of her bisexuality, your problem here is more just that she broke up with you. It doesn't matter that she is bisexual...the problem may be that you are simply not what she needs right now. Talk to her, see whether your relationship can be salvaged...the hard truth may be that she just needs something different in her life at the moment. And that, only time will heal. ( Full Answer )