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If you suspect that he is, the only way to really know is to sit down and talk to him about it. If you have a strong relationship, you'll know even if he isn't telling you the truth. Okay, stop and think for a moment. Your asking us this question and we don't know him. Your best bet is to ask yourself this question. Do you see signs that he is gay? Does he refuse to have sex with you? Only you can answer these quesitons. Only he knows the real truth. I personally was married to a guy that I didn't suspect he was gay until after a couple of years of being married. He wanted anal sex. Wow. The light bulb went off and I flat out ask him. He lied of course and after a few years we divorced. I was affraid of getting aids from him and he started cheating with another woman anyway. He lied about that too. Imagine that. At work there is this guy I have seen there for over 5 years and I could swear he was gay and he was married too. However, he and everyone else swore he wasn't. Well about 6 months ago the looser came out of the closet and treated his ex-wife like crap and talked badly about her. What an idiot. He lied to her, himself and before God. Gay guys are for the most part in denial. Then get all Tyra Banks on you when their called on their lies. If you really suspect it then your probably right. Who knows. Just be happy. It's a very emotionally draining situation and you should be happy. No one can make that happen but yourself. There are a few good books written concerning this topic. "The Straight Up Truth About The Down-Low" and "Straight Wives, Shattered Lives". Both books have stories of women who were married to gay men. The first books goes into the warning signs in great detail. Go to Amazon.com and purchase the books and you may see yourself in the women's stories. Good Luck to you.
What else can I help you with?
What do the wife do when she expect her husband to be on down low or gay?
Ask him the questions that are on your mind. Give him your observations and conclusions.
Is Katrina kaif gay?
NO, Katrina Kaif is not a gay. She seems to be a lesbian.
Does the term down-low mean a man is gay?
No it means that someone is not a nice person. A low-down man would be someone who lies or steals. THE low-down means the facts about the situation though!
How do you know if your man is on the down low?
There are no concrete ways to tell a man in down low, the only way you will know is if you ask, he tells you, or you get nosey.
Is a boy gay if he wears his pants down low?
Yes and no. Historically, it was common practice in prisons to wear your pants quite low to tell other inmates that you are gay and willing to have anal intercourse. This gave other prisoners the "go ahead" sign that you were willing to engage in sexual activities with them. However, this has changed since then. It is now common for many males, young teenagers in particular, to wear their pants quite low.
Is it okay to have an affair with gay people?
No affair is right whether it is with a gay person; bisexual or straight person because it's down and low cheating on someone that trusts you.
What was the name of Juliette Gordon Low's husband?
Juliette Gordan Low's husband was William (Willie) Mackey Low.
What does it mean for a man to be on the 'Down Low'?
What is the "Down Low" or "DL"? Men who discreetly have sex with other men while in sexual relationships with women are said to be on the "down low" (or "dl" for short). Often these men do not consider themselves gay or bisexual and their female partners are not aware that they have sex with other men, thus the term "down low" or "in hiding". How is the down low different from being closeted? At it's core a man on the down low is no different than a closeted man. However, the high numbers of HIV cases within the African-American community, especially among straight black women, has brought attention to this phenomenon. A growing number of people feel that men on the down low who have unprotected sex with other men pose a health risk to their girlfriends or wives. Since men on the dl do not consider themselves gay or bisexual, they feel no need to disclose their activities.
Is Daniel Sunjata from greys anatomy gay?
Really I don't know but he surely acts and looks like it he might be a brother on the down low
What is Low throughput economy?
gay
I'm a Gay ninth grader and no 1 knows im Gay cause I'm on the down low but most of my friends act Gay but i don't know for sure how can i see if they're Gay or not without exposing my secret?
It's not cool to "act gay", any more than it would be cool to "act black". So you might tell your friends that it's not cool. This way, you're not telling them that you're gay, but you are telling them that you respect the feelings of gay people. If you stick to this, if you publicly support gay rights, gay people will come to you. And if people ask you if you're gay, you can just ask them why they want to know. Incidentally, it's a good idea to find out where your school administrators and teachers stand on gay rights. They can be powerful allies!
Should you tell your husband you are vulnerable to cheating because of his low sex drive?
That all depends on how your husband would handle it. you may be better of not saing any thing and just being carefull. or leave and get someone more to your taste in bed.
