The Veronicas

The Veronicas are an electropop-rock duo consisting of twin sisters Jessie and Lisa Origliasso.

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Is it more important 'to be in love with' or 'to love' each other?

Love If it's that important there isn't much spontaneity to it.And that expression one always hears"I fell in love with him" or "I settled down". Listen to those words. It's as if admitting you fell flat on your face for this person before you even knew them well enough and then you "settled". Don't ever settle for someone who thinks they are in love with you or you with them. Find out what love really is. That takes 2 or 3 divorces. No, just joking. It just takes time.But don't put so much importance to it and it will happen all by itself. Some people are just in love with the fact of being in love; so I suppose the answer to your question would have to be just to love each other and remember there are only a few soulmates for you in this entire world. Never use the word love loosely. I hate people who say "Well, I've been in love about 7 or 8 times now.I don't know. I guess I just quit counting."No, they just quit caring about what the word really means.

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  • I think it is important to have both. If a man says he loves you but isn't in love with you that would almost be like him being a family member (father, brother, uncle). If a man says he loves you and is in love with you then you have a great guy.
  • I'm married and have told my husband that I love him but am not in love with him. Yes, I'm guilty, but it means I love him really to a point. But when I look into his eyes, I don't get watery eyed or feel up with emotion. He is the father of my children, he is good to me and my family loves him as do I. But in love means passion, just really heart felt love. Think of him and smile. I don't get that. I'm working on indirectly showing or telling him what to do to get me to that point. To be honest, someone in the past has that torch.
  • To be in love describes the excitement, passion, and sense of worth that a person experiences when they are involved with someone. It is a personal experience. To love someone means that you give them care, concern, friendship and affection willingly. You respect them, understand that they are as human as you and do make mistakes, but that they are a good, capable, responsible person whom you enjoy spending time with. Your affection does not wane with distance, and you do not grow bored of them with time. Neither do you idealize them.
  • To love: is to care about someone in ways that you devote yourself to that person. To be in love: is to feel your hart beating because you are attracted (phiscally or spiritually) to that person. I think the question is: Is loving someone enough to be in a relationship or people need to have both? I don't think there is a yes-no answer to this. The true test of love is when your partner is willing to do anything for your happiness (and viceversa).. even staying with that person for the rest of your life even if you want something else (this however, is against love towards yourself -selfesteem-).
  • In order to be in love, you have to first love the person. Being in love is a heightened unexplainable level of love. I don't see how a marriage could be worthwhile, and be something of worth if your not in love. So to answer the question you would have to have both. Because love gets you through the hard times, and being in love makes the easy or happy times that much greater.
  • You need to be in love for yourself and for your partner's sake. You can love someone deeply, but how will you explain yourself how you feel about someone else if everytime you see them your heart jumps, your cheeks burn, your lips smile. If this someone is not your partner then, what's the point? Darling, give yourself, and your partner, the chance to feel this for someone else, and know this someone else feels the same, and live life to the full, for God wants us to love deeply and not fool ourselves: fall in love, be in love.
  • The way you put it, it seems that 'to be in love with' someone is infatuation. Infatuation is always temporary. It's when you feel like you need to be with someone, like they're the only person you could ever be with, and you can't stop thinking about them. When you love someone, that means you care about them more than you care about yourself. Love is more important.
  • Here is the deal. The real deal. You will NEVER meet someone that you will be IN LOVE with all of the time. People just don't do that. In relationships that people have been married for 50 years they will tell you, they were in and out of love. They NEVER stopped loving each other, but they were not always IN LOVE. That isn't reality. We just aren't built that way. You get in a relationship were you are in love with someone all of the time. Could you imagine that? It would be soo unhealty. We just fall in and out of love with someone, and that is OK. It's not bad. It doesn't mean we cheat, it just means we are human.
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Love is an action. It requires daily upkeep that cannot fail. In a marriage relationship, love is what binds two together; it brings out the best and the worst. Love cannot fail. Feelings of love are like wind that are here today and wrap you in a whirlwhind of passion but tomorrow is gone. Love must be steadier than that. It must be an anchor in a wild and stormy sea that will hold tight and never let go. Which love would you prefer? To share a love that is here today or gone tomorrow? Or would you prefer a love that lasts the ages. To be "in love" with someone can change. The one you are "in love" with can have good and bad feelings about life every day. One minute happy-the next minute sad or angry. When someone is sad or angry, is it hard to "be in love with them" at that moment? probably. But "To love one another" never fails. It loves regardless of the situation, time, or moment. It loves constantly. That love is patient, kind, it does not envy or boast. It is not proud or rude or self seeking. It is not easily angered and that love keeps no record of wrongs. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres. That love never fails. Which would you prefer? To have changing feelings? Or a love that never fails...

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I think that they're both equal. To be 'in love' and 'to love' are slightly different, but both are important just the same. You love your family and friends, but you could be in love someone. That doesn't make the people you love inferior or less important, or vise versa.

Both are Importent However It is better to love each other because very simply you could Be Infatuated with that person. now if married both are Importent. But the partner should love you for who you are and view you as a Man a mortal man or woman . But you should love each other More because outside Influence should not play a role in relationships also known as monday mourning quarterbacks.

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I think you have to "fall in love" with the person first. It DOES take, sometimes, a long time to find a true love...not just a romantic love where it can change with the wind but a true love that does involve passion, romance, makes your heart flip, your world brighter, you think of them always and would do anything for them. A true love is unselfish, caring, respectful, and trusting and when you have that foundation to start with you have a much stronger bond. You end up being "in love with" and "loving" that person for everything that they are, faults and all. I "settled" before and thought I was "in love" but it didn't last. I loved that person as a person but the "in love" was not present and the relationship did not last. Once you have met your true love, your soulmate, both kinds of love are present and it is absolutely wonderful. You will look back and realize that you didn't know what love was at all! At least not the kind of love that is real, true, and long lasting. The kind of love that gets you through anything together. So, my opinion is, you have to be "in love" and "love" the person in order to experience real happiness and long-lasting marriage or relationship.

well it takes balence!! not one more than the other.... too much of anything isn't good!! :]

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Which one sings more in the veronicas?

It depends on the song, but over-all Lisa does the most in their songs.

Lisa does the more consistent and lower parts, wile Jess does the high and powerful parts. For example, in their song "4ever" Lisa starts out the song and Jess joins in in the chorus. In the chorus for that song, you mostly only hear Jess unless you pay attention, at which point you can hear Lisa harmonizing.

Lisa and Jess rarely sing the same exact thing at the same time, so it's hard to say exactly who sings more. To do that you'd have to time up ow many seconds each sings in eachof their songs... Good luck with that ^^

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What sample is featured in the veronicas untouched?

Lenny from The Buggles

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How are CD's made?

u burn it on itunes

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What instruments use radiation?

Smoke detectors, the older ones, used radiation to detect the smoke.

Soil density testers use radiation. A lot of medical instruments use it--X-ray machines and radiation machines for cancer treatment.

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Where did Lew Alcindor go to high school?

Power Memorial . Power Memorial

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What tattoo does Patrick McGuinness have on his left wrist?

It's a heart with 'Mother' and 'Patricia' written around it.

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Which the veronicas sister are lesbian?

Neither is a lesbian. Jess is bi or bi-curious

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What to do if you're in love with your ex who drinks and they won't stop calling. And you know seeing each other leads to sleeping with each other which leads to confusion on my part when they go?

You've been transformed into a booty call. They drink, get horny, call you, hit it & leave.

Stop answering their calls, tell them your busy, or you are involved with somebody else.

Stop playing the fool, unless you're completely over him/her & don't mind the hit & quit!

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Is 3 months into a relationship too soon to be in love with each other or can it be real?

To answer your Q, you must ask yourself:

1. What do I feel right now, at this very moment about this person.

2. Are my feelings being influenced by ohter people, (eg to fit in)

3. Am I old enough to really know the difference between real love (where two people gel to make it trully wonderful, and not by the one person), and the love someone claims to be feeling for their own gain( to not feel lonely, or for sex).

4. Why am I not already in love with this person (who made this stupid rule about 'rushing things' anyway!?!?)

5. Who am I as a person?

Straight up, if you didnt feel like you were in love with this person to start with, & your waiting for to fall in love with this person, don't get into it!!Work out what it is you 'NEED' or no less 'DESERVE' in relationship, and not what you 'WANT'. Every body wants a hot guy or girl, and we tend 2 forget about what really drives our human need, to feel loved, security, passion, touch.. but what you should focus on is what R U wiiling to do to be the best partner U can be, and is the other person feeling the same way U do?? You see, if both of you are about givng & giving to each other, your not thinking about what you R to gain from this, but what i mean as a partner, about giving, being a loving caring human being.. who you R as a person and what you stand for?

So. You should already know the answer! think about it. Dont let anybody give you advice about YOUR relationship.. only you know what you really feel inside.

And if people make you doubt yourself, walk away and have some private time to think. Dont fall in2 the trap of listening to people, who pretend to know what you need or deserve, and think 4 yourself. Use your heart and mind, NOT your surroundings to make decisions. But 1st work out, who U R. And then make the necessary changes to your self. the sooner you start doing this the sooner your character and inner wonder & wisdom will prevail, and you will ATTRACT the right person.. you wont be looking.

Ask yourself this. "Have i been in a relationship, that when we broke up, i said 'i cant believe i WAISTED so much of my time on this relationship'"????Has this ever happenned to you? it haapenned to me, TO MANY times before i learnt this basics about relationship.

DONT WAIST ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME OR THE OTHER PERSONS TIME ON SOMETHING YOUR WILLNG TO GIVE UP ON, OR YOUR NOT SERIOUS ABOUT, OR YOUR NOT SURE ABOUT.I hope this atleast made you think about what you deserve as a person. Take care & enjoy your life and make relationship something empowering, not confusing!!

AnswerYes you can be in love after only 3 months. Me and my husband said i love after 2 months and we have been together for 4 almost 5 years!
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What is Darian Weiss msn address?

What Is Darian Weiss Msn Address ?plsz... = )

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What is the CD made of?

A Compact Disc is made from a 1.2 mm thick disc of almost pure polycarbonate plastic and weighs approximately 16 grams. A thin layer of aluminum or, more rarely, gold is applied to the surface to make it reflective, and is protected by a film of lacquer. The lacquer is normally spin coated directly on top of the reflective layer. On top of that surface, the label print is applied.

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What can you do if your boyfriend lives 1 and one-half hrs away you are both only 16 and truly love each other but his grandma will not let you see each other?

IF YOUR BOYFRIEND LIVES WITH HIS GRANDMA THEN HE MUST RESPECT HER WISHES, AS IT IS HER HOME HE LIVES IN AND MUST ABIDE BY HER RULES. THAT IS WHAT BEING MATURE IS, RESPECTING RULES. THERE MUST BE A REASON THAT HIS GRANDMA WONT ALLOW YOU TWO TO SEE EACH OTHER??? DID HE DISREPECT HER? WERE YOU TWO BEING SNEAKY? I CANT IMAGINE A GRANDMA BEING CRUEL. PERHAPS YOU CAN ASK HER PERMISSION TO VISIT HIM. TALK TO HER. MAYBE THE TWO OF YOU ARE HAVING SEX AND SHE FEELS IT IS MUCH TOO YOUNG, AS DO I. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER BUT ULTIMATELY YOU CAN NOT DISRESPECT.

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Where did actress Irene Miracle go to High School?

Fremont High School in Sunnyvale, California

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Did short stack and the veronicas go out?

Yes, Shaun went out with Jess and Andy went out with Lisa. However, they broke up soon after.

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What age did the Veronica's make their first song?

The Veronicas made there first song when Jessica got a guitar for her 18th birthday.

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Which 2 states each border 8 states including each other?

Missouri and Tennessee

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What can you do if you have been married for 13 years and you do not love each other and have been having an affair with a man you met 15 years ago and you do love each other?

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A bird in hand is worth two in the bush..
Why did u not marry your boy friend in the first place 15 years ago..
Was he not interested in commitment...Will he marry you and take care of you.
Have you discussed with your husband about your relationship.
Why did you stick through for 13 years if you did not love each other. When did you start dating your old boy friend again?..
It is best for you to meet a councellor who can guide you through.. but pls do not jump from the frying pan to the fire...
A home with a man who cares yet does not profess love, may be better than a man who say I love you and satisfies the ugres of physical love, but may not be committed. Thank you

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Does he still love me after over a year of not talking to each other but constantly looking at each other and trying to make each other jealous before that he wrote me a love poem and we texted daily?

== == == == === === * Yes, I would say the relationship could grow. No relationship starts with both partners telling each other that they are in love with them straight away. That comes further down the line. * It's possible, it depends on how long you have been close to this person since the breakup. This person knows you well enough to know whether or not what they want in a girlfriend. Since it appears you are still attracted to each other then don't be "clingy" or mention it a lot. * If someone has told you they love you then I have no idea why you don't think they do love you unless they are using you or have abusive behavior. You can't make someone love you and no one can make you love them. It's love or nothing! If this person treats you well, you get along and have fun together then I'd say it's love. If they are seldom around, you don't feel good about yourself when you are around them then they aren't the person you should be with. Love is about honor, loyalty, being each others best friend, feeling free and comfortable to talk to your mate at any given time about your feelings or problems and it's up to you to decide this. If you don't get any of these things from this person, then it's time for you to move on in order to free yourself up and meet someone else that will appreciate you. It's time to stop the 'childish games' of making each other jealous and either communicate the fact to one another that you want to get back together. * I'm giving a 97% chance that he no longer loves you, but he could possibly still like you. Either that or maybe he thinks you still like him (which it sounds like you do) and he keeps looking at you because he's uncomfortable around you.

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Are parents obligated to stay together for the sake of their children if they love each other but are not in love with each other?

Tricky territory, what a burden to put on your children. We stayed together, never had happiness, created no passion, lived in a loveless marriage BUT; we did it because WE LOVE YOU. Nah, I would rather be raised by parents that enjoy life, have passion ect, ect even if they are no longer married to each other. Thanks

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How can i express that i love her as we both love each-other?

Simple --- Just say directly on her face and wait for the reply and I am sure she will accept it b'coz u have a great courage to show your feelings. Keep going in Love. It is the biggest treasure in the world. Love Love and Love only...

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Where did JD Drew go to high school?

Lowndes County High School in Valdosta, GA

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Is it okay to be engaged if you are almost 16 and your boyfriend is about ready to turn 17 if you love each other deeply?

I got engaged at 17 & my boyfriend was 20. My advice is it's ok to be engaged for a really long time. From personal expereince & this is totally true. What you are feeling now is no garentee that you will feel the same as you get older. Those strong in love feelings do pass for most people your age.

If you're in love, then what is the harm of waiting?

What's the rush?

Marriage can be a real pain in the a$$

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What is the title of Ron Artest's rap CD?

The title of Ron Artest's rap CD is 'My World'.

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What are the veronicas full names?

Jessica Louise Origliasso and Lisa Marie Origliasso

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