The MgBr causes the carbon that it's attached to in the
phenylmagnesium bromide to become negative and attack the carbonyl
carbon of the ethyl benzoate. The carbonly obtains a new bond with
a phenyl group and loses its double bond to oxygen. It instead
becomes a single bond and oxygen becomes negative (theoretically,
the MgBr will attach to the oxygen as an intermediate phase). This
attack of the carbon attached to the MgBr will happen a second time
creating a carbon attached to 3 phenyl groups (triphenyl) and upon
reduction of this compound (using H2 and a catalyst or LiAlH4),
-OCH2CH3 gets protonated and leaves as ethanol, and the carbon and
oxygen get protonated to CH3OH. I hope this makes sense to you,
lol.