Look up a Brown Widow spider. that might be what you are looking for.
A large, black spider with a red hourglass on it's back.
The violent spider is brown,and leggy
The only spider I have seen like this was a common sight in Kimberley South Africa. We called it a button spider because its back look like a button. It was not a black widow and it was not orange and did not have the hourglass marking that is common with the black or brown widow - also called the button spider.
like little brown spheres
It looks like a dick.
There are a number of spiders that are venomous and have different markings and coloring. The two most dangerous of spiders is the Black Widow and the Brown Recluse spiders. The Black Widow is shiny black with a red hourglass marking on its underside. The Brown Recluse is shaped like a violin and is a dark color.
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A black widow is a spider I would look up pics too
Spider monkeys have light brown fur (Goldy) and are black handed
Sounds like a black widow spider - does it look like this (check related links)?