Brazilians find it an offense when people speak to them in an arrogant, condescending, impatient or rude way. For Brazilians tend to be accommodating, easy going and hospitable. In fact, they're proud of their country's reputation as a melting pot of many cultures and languages. Consequently, they're used to trying to work out problems as amicably as possible. And so it's offensive to Brazilians when others don't respect the feelings and rights of others.