Yes, there are boxers without elastic waistbands they are called
French Fly Boxers. They are usually fitted and have a 2 to 3 button
hole.
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Yes there are mens pants with elastic waistbands. JcPenny,
Kmart, and Target are a few places that sell them. The ones at
JcPenny are called : Men's Towncraft Plain Front Full Elastic
Pants
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Most maternity jeans offer drawstring waists, but some use
elastic waistbands.