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Can a narcissist be both cerebral and somatic?

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Mine was both a cerebral and a somatic as well.He is 40 now (although he is not looking more than 32-35).He was a great guitarist(in my country),had three marriages and endless realationships and small affairs.He used to be very handsome (even did some modelling when younger)and he is still quite goodlooking.He used to say that he was quite foolish when he was young and even suffered from hysterical paralysis caused by participating in orgies e.t.c.Now he says that he wants to be loved (=worshiped) for his witts and soul and that he always longed for women that he would appreciate their mind and good soul.The guy brags about how he must ejaculate 2-3 times a day in order to feel right,and still tells stories about how he would relate to women with exceptional personalities no matter how they looked.He used to tell me that he would be in love with me for 150 years,that he would still desire me no matter if a carot would root on my forehead and stuff like that.I guess his need to appreciate mind would grow accordingly to how his body was changing due to time.The truth is that he is an intelligent person,very talented in music,he could be a real philosopher if he wasn't so self-absorbed.But he is still a narcissist.No matter somatic or cerebral or both,the pattern is still the same:they can't love,they are terrified that you don't find them beautiful enough or intelligent enough and they are always ready to go to the next victim.

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It is both somatic and autonomic

What is a somatic narcissist?

is more sexual including intercourse,various deviant interests, but eventually the activity will diminish unless with multiple reationships

What would be the reaction of a somatic female narcissist if you tell them that you do not want to have sex with them and you will never have sex with them?

they will act upset... but they will just go find someone else.

How does eating a piece of pizza involve both the somatic and autonomic nervous systems?

how does eating a piece of pizza involve both the somatic and autonomic nervous system

How can you tell for sure if your narcissist partner is cerebral or somatic in type if there are no clear cut signs?

From my experience and reading, I have found that narcissists switch roles. My N would switch between being somatic to cerebral. For instance, he would go through periods of time when he wanted to be very sexual then we would go without sex for a very long time. Sometimes he would care about his appearance way too much and then other times he would look like a bum. He would also go between working out a lot to not working out at all. Everything was extreme, there was never any moderation. To answer your question, you would have to judge it on your own. I would say that my N, acted more cerebral at times. It just all depended on the day.

Do all female somatic narcissists also suffer with histrionic PD and does it stay with them forever?

In my view, somatic narcisism IS the Histrionic Personality Disorder. And, yes, it is "forever". It may not stay with them forever, it may for example become a more cerebral form of narcissism.

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Will the histrionic female narcissist always become spiteful if you refuse them sex?

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