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Does an emotional abuser ever realize their doing and really love their partner?
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∙ 14y ago
I don't think they do, once you leave a abuser they normally come after you telling you they love you and how there going to change!
They don't change..someone who has to degrade someone emotionally never changes as they have a hold on you that they will always have! and they will break you down until you feel worthless.
Some people who emotionally abuse people don't realise there doing it (most do) but some men and women are unaware of how much they hurt you with certain comments.
I think the people who are unaware how much there words hurt you, they can change. But other people do it to break you down, so they can keep you under lock and key.
..This is just my opinion :)
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How do you confront abusers?
Abuse comes in many ways; it can be both emotional and psychological. As a victim dealing with abuse, the best way is to set boundaries and realize you alone cannot change the abuser. The best way to handle it is to set boundaries, understand that it is your reactions that you can really change, and get professional help if problem escalates. Confronting an abuser as an outsider may or may not be the best idea; they may take as an attack and direct their anger at you. If it is indeed physical abuse, call authorities! There are laws against physical abuse, but not emotional abuse.
How do you cry for a play or film when your not an emotional person I hardly ever cry at anything please help?
don't worry about it, the people you're hanging around with are most likely really emotional. It's okay if you don't cry when ever you watch fake people not really die, you probably realize that its just in a show.
Is it normal to be in a situation where once you learn that your partner or parent is an abuser you start to do things that intentionally anger him to try to get toward emotional recovery?
For some victims it can be normal in their eyes, but really, it's a dangerous thing to do. If the abuser is indeed a physical abuser (even mental abuser) and the victim goads them on they are headed for disaster. The reason a victim may come to this point is because they feel depressed, could care less if they live or die and it's "no holds bared." The victim is full of rage and often times would rather die fighting back rather than taking a beating. Our survival instincts kick in (some quicker than others.) It's wise to just leave the situation and go to an Abused Women's Center and they will help protect you, put you in a "safe house" and help you on your way to recovery through programs. Good luck Marcy
Why do people feel love for their abusers?
I am not sure if it's love that they are feeling. Abuse is a cycle that is really hard to break. Love is something healty and kind and there is no love in an abusive relationship. I believe that both parties can care about each other. For the abuser they are in love with the control they have over their partner. As far as the partner is concerned, they have a very low self esteem and feel like the abuser is their whole life and that they cannot make it without them. Both people are co-dependent and it is hard for either of them to end the cycle they have become so used to.
Is it bad to be really emotional?
no
Was your abuser really that bad if you feel worse without him?
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
Who really made apple computers?
Bill Gates partner really made Microsoft.Bill brought Microsoft from his partner who who died in 1999
Why do men say I love you?
Men say "I love you" to express their deep emotional attachment and affection towards their partner. It is a way for them to communicate their feelings and to show their commitment and devotion to the relationship.
Did does and will psychiatry ever really cause anyone to suffer severe emotional distress ever?
Psychiatry really helps people who suffer from severe emotional distress.
Why would a man accuse a woman of cheating just for an excuse to fight?
On the face of it there are two possibilities: * 1 Either he is a habitual abuser and is looking for an excuse to get violent. * 2 Or he is really convinced that his partner has cheated on him and he has abused her. You know him and are in a much better position than me to decide which of these two it is - or whether it's something different.
What can you do if your partner is not as interested in sex as you are?
You can do things for your partner such as tuning into his/her needs. Ask your partner what gets them in the mood. Is it romance, physical attraction, etc.? Try letting you partner be in control during intercourse and pay close attention to what your partner seems to really enjoy. If you partner doesn't want sex, don't push it. Don't be so obvious about it such as bluntly saying "So, you wanna let me love you tonight?" Try something such as cooking dinner, or ordering take-out and watching a movie together, or something that your partner really enjoys doing and start the foreplay. Just do your best to make the sexual interaction more about your partner than about you to really see what you partner is really looking for.
Do all emotional affairs have to become sexual?
Not really. Emotional affairs are a situation where one person out of a romantic couple seeks emotional support from a person who is not their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. For it to count as an emotional affair, the person supplying the emotional support would have to be someone who would be eligible as a companion had the person seeking emotional support not been romantically involved already. Sex does not really supply emotional support, so it does not fit into a specifically emotional affair.
