How to answer this??? I'm going to take a shot. You are or think you are gay and think you want to change??? Personal opinion only, you have to answer for yourself. You are who you are, don't try to change to fit in or to satisfy someone else or be what they think you should be. You can pretend and live a hetrosexual lifestyle, but that will not change who you are. Make your own decisions for your life. Doing what someone else tells you to do or living by their standards is not only foolish, it's impossible. Everyone will have a different set of rules for you to live by and that leads to the nut house. If I'm on the right track, I speak from experience. If I'm way off base, sorry. How can you be hetrosexual? Have sex with the opposite sex.