How can you stop loving someone who is already married?

Answer 1

You can start by not being around them anymore. However difficult or impossible it might seem to "let go" you must keep away from them. Avoid them,change jobs if you must, especially if they are enjoying the attention you give them because it means they are using you to boost their ego and the hurt will be intensified FOR YOU. Don't hang around their friends in the hope of hearing what they are doing in their lives, it just keeps the pain alive.

Do what you must and DO IT FOR YOU. It may seem hard but in a few short weeks, they will start to fade from your memory and you will be happy again. Being in love with someone who does not or cannot love you is a hell you need to be free of and as soon as you put the aviodance plan into action the sooner you will be free to love someone who is free to love you- that is worth every ounce of the short term pain of separation. Good luck.

Answer 2

* The human heart sometimes knows no boundaries, but falling in love with a married person is fruitless and more than one person is going to get hurt. Sometimes people can't help loving someone and so it will take time for you to heal from it. Believe it or not if you cease to be around this person you are in love with and have no contact with them time does heal. The key is to keep busy going out with friends, perhaps traveling if possible (clears your head) and eventually you will be able to cope better and will find that special someone you should be with.