You say can we hook up and ill be your go to man when you need to feel good or can I come to you when you need some. And ask can it stay between y'all. Say u won't tell anyone
Only if you want to. You don't have to.
You ask someone close to you or ask your friends.
sure
you sorta gotta ask someone out......my opinion
Firstly ask her to meet you somewhere and see if she says yes (if she does then then she likes you). Then when you meet her tell her how you feel and be open telling lies usually ruins it. Then ask her about what she thinks of you and if it is positive try and get close to her if she declines look for someone else. :)
I did and now I'm a year into my relationship
You don't. If it is someone in your life that you want to have an ongoing relationship with, regardless of the type of relationship, you tell them it doesn't matter to you if they are and mean it. If it is not someone you have a relationship with, it is none of your business. It nobody's business but the person and they will tell who they want to, when they want to. Ask them directly and live with the consequences if you feel you have to know.
when u just ask random people to date
You purpose and you have to have a good enough relationship
ask them in person and get off facebook.
i think not too much, i mean what's the point of even calling it a "relationship" ? I know someone who wanted an open relationship, and they broke up because he just found someone he liked more. Just have him more of a hook up or friends with benefits! :-)
i dont know ask someone else
This is a question you should ask yourself. The very fact that you asked it here shows that you are unsure about the relationship. So the question you should ask yourself is this: "Are you ok with the relationship?"