How do you heal after a breakup?

Answer 1

Become a busy person, fill your schedule with everything from work to hobbies in order to keep yourself from thinking about the person you broke up with.

Allow yourself time to heal, it won't happen overnight.

Train your thoughts to think of this person as a learning experience rather than a painful one.

Answer

It takes time to heal after a breakup, and their is no way getting around that! The hard part however is waiting! It's hard to be patient, and move on when your heart has been broken. Especially considering the fact of how the two of you broke up. To give you an example me and boyfriend broke up mutually, we did not fight about it. We did it because we felt it would be the best for both of us, since we did not get along. Yeah... easier said than done haha. After about a week and a half, I started wanting to get back with him! I can tell you why though. It wasn't because I wanted to be with him for loves sake, although I do care for him! I wanted to get back with him because the life I shared with him was what I was so familiar with! I think the biggest opstacle of all, is getting over the whole familiarity of it all! But like I say everyone's breakup situation is different. Just try to focus on you, was the relationship good for the both of you? Did you get along? Sometimes two people just can not mesh well together, and trust me in the long run, you want to be happy! Don't spend half your life with someone who isn't right or good for you. So all I can say is their is no easy way out of this, it takes time and patience. You'll see, in time you'll be able to move on and then realize it was probably the best thing that could have happened to you! GOOD LUCK!

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I would say stay away from him. Its hard to do but in the long run you will save yourself from going through the dreaded false hope of reconcilation stage. It is a stage where you mind remembers all the good times and forgets the misery. Your hurting so your mind will tell you that you need him back, you dont. Take deep breaths when the feelings arise, talk it out with trusted close friends and family, go for walks, have coffee, watch movies. I would say hibernate for a day or two then get out and try to enjoy life, even when your gut aches! Write it down everynight how you feel and what was wrong with the relationship. The best thin again is no contact. Time will heal but you just have to go through it and then you always come out the other side into the sunlight. Plus spring is around the corner and that seems to be a good time to start anew. Best Wishes.

good luck my friend]

chocolate helps but not all the time

you dont want to become a whale like mee (cry cry cry)

Answer 2

What you do is:

1. Go to the store, and buy a mega box of Kleenex's

2. Go home and crawl into bed and don't come out until you feel better

OR

1. GET OVER YOURSELF, HOMIE!!!

Don't let yourself go because of that one person. It's not worth it. You will find someone else to be with and you will be happy again.

Answer 3

tell him/her that u want to just be friends.

Answer 4

eat a tub iof ice cream AND GET OVER IT !!