How do you dump a girl and still have her like you?
The word "dump" sounds like you use something and then throw it away on a garbage dump (although I'm sure you mean it as a play on words) and don't care or don't realize that you have hurt someone else's feelings. When you find that a relationship isn't working out you "break-up" with the person, not "dump" them and move on. It's best to move on when you have been dating someone for a period of time because it's obvious she may still love you and by being friends it's like pouring salt in her wounds. Trying to be friends with an ex seldom works out and it's an extremely low percentage that does. You've made your decision so quit pulling my chain ... you just want to keep tabs on this girl to see who else she may date and then you may decide to jump back into the game. This girl doesn't need more friends!