How do you forgive your fiance for lying to you about her past She was with guys of bigger size and never wanted to tell you and bring it in your relationship you found this out 3 years into your rela?

Answer 1

First off: Did she date them or have sex with them? If she dated them in the past that's okay. Now if she had sex or dated during the relationship your relationship's questionable. You should ask these question's preferably in order: * Are you satisfied with our personal relationship (aka Do you feel comfortable around me?) * Are you feeling I'm going to slow in our relationship (this can cause other men to get involved.) * Are you satisfied with our sex life? If she says no to the first question there's a slim chance of staying together. If she says no to the second question you have to ask what she wants to speed up (If it's sex don't push yourself to hard). If she says no to question 3 you have to find out how important sex is to her if you can't do any better. If she think's she'll break the marriage over sex than she wasn't worth the time and effort.

Answer 2

Forgiveness is a personal process and can vary for each individual. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your fiance about how her past is making you feel. Understanding her reasons for not sharing this earlier can also help in finding a resolution. Building trust and open communication moving forward is crucial for the growth of your relationship.