How do you get a eighth grade guy to like you?

Answer 1

First of all, are you sure you really want to do this? If you're in eighth grade too, or younger, having sex right now should not be on your to-do list. I'm in ninth grade myself, and friends I have who've slept with guys in the eighth grade sincerely regret it now.

But if you are serious about this, cultivate your relationship with this guy first. If you guys are dating now, you have I higher chance of your goal happening, rather then if you guys are just friends now. Work towards becoming closer, do more stuff together, and be sure to talk to each other. Then at a time when you're both alone, ask him what he thinks about it. If he's not ready for it, you should NOT push him. He'll be ready when he's ready, and there's not really anything you can do to change that except keep being close to him. If he says yes, be sure to plan things carefully, and be SAFE! a.k.a. Use a condom.

I've been in this situation myself, and it's my personal advice to wait till you're older, but if you really want to do this, make sure you really think he's a special guy, and he really thinks you're a special girl. You want to remember your first time happily, and not as a mistake.

i think you shouldn't do it in my opinion because you have your whole life in front of you and losing your virginity at that age is very very wrong. im sorry but if you really want to and really like the guy be protected

Answer 2

ima freshman in high school&&something i learned from 7th&&8th grade is you cant make somebody like you. no matter how hard you try. you just have to be your self && act your self around the person&&if they dont like you for you than screw them. its better to be yourself than to be something your not. theres somebody out there for you so just look. dont try to change for this one guy. its not worth it. once your older you'll see that it was just a little 8th grade crush && you'll laugh at yourself for it.

^Amen :)

Exactly. im a freshman too and all of those "crushes" i had in 7th and 8th grade were stupid. thats when i thought i liked him but now that i look back i realise how stupid i was! but now im happy with the guy i have :) <3