for a man hold your penis and stroke it or raise hand up and down for a girl you put one or more fingers in your vagina & well .. just poke about xD spell it right first, once you do, then do the above. MASTURBATE
Masturbation. Usually, you wrap your hand around the penis and squeeze with the amount of pressure you find comfortable and stroke it up and down. Do this until you climax. You can vary this any way that stimulates you. You can use lotion or not depending on what you like. That is the basics. Everyone finds their own method and rhythm.
if it feels good then it is good.
I don't think so.
No it is not. Many masturbate through out their lives incl marriage.
ive heard that somewhere in the bible it says that your not suppost to masturbate ----------------------------------- There is no one answer to this that everyone will ever agree on. There are many activities that some people consider sinful and other people consider OK. Consider: eating pork, working on the Sabbath, playing cards--all these could be considered sinful, depending on who you ask. My own approach is: (1) decide what, for you, constitutes a sin; (2) based on your definition of sin, evaluate the particular activity.
no sweetheart, it DOESN'T stunt your growth. whoever told you that, was either wrong, or a jerk. but it WILL make your palms hairy (no it won't, I'm teasing you) if you practice making it last longer before "finishing", it will make you "bigger" (just like any other muscle), and you'll feel more satisfied afterwards. almost all young men do it (even tho they won't admit it), and "feeling guilty" does FAR MORE damage than having a healthy sex drive EVER could. good luck dear :)