How do you react when you mad at your boyfriend?

Answer 1

It depends on why he's mad. if he's mad because of something you said its time to get real and explain to your spouse why you said it and how what you said affects you also !! ask for forgiveness and just try 2 work things out

Answer 2

Just breakup with him.

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Alternatively, you might want to try and work it out. Is it happening frequently? Can you pinpoint exactly what it is that makes you angry? If you think the relationship is worth saving, then talk to him about it, because if you don't communicate you feelings then he might not ever find out what it is he's doing that annoys you.

Answer 3

It depends if it is a reasonable thing to be mad at him about. If it's like he got better grades than you, that's nothing. If for another example he was cheating on you then you have a reason to react mad.

Answer 4

I've been with my boyfriend since 17 years old for almost 4 years. I was independent+focused, but had childhood traumas. I met him at summer job, he loved me so much. But I was always insecure + unable to express feelings. I love him, but I unintentionally mistreat him. This interracial relationship went on, he left family to move in with me near my school but hrs of ttc for him to his, I demanded more, and 2 years ago we broke up, I left Canada for 4 months to heal, but once he contacted me, I felt my entire defence collapsed, I came back. we couldn't stay apart, we fight+argue, but we'd still go out of our way for each other.

I just had 2nd abortion since 2008, this time I decided without asking him. perhaps I felt I was getting somewhere in life, or just not willing to give up all for him anymore. I thought I needed him, but now I realize, I let go all hurtful things he did/said just for I can't bare to imagine him giving all his love to another person. in past months, I woke up early daily to drive him from downtown to uptown for work regardless how tired or sick I felt during pregnancy, picked him up for it to be raining, midnight or w/e...i was there.

i know he did a lot too, but when we fight, he'd say hurtful things or even get violent if I push his buttons. There was my birthday last week, and he did so much to make my dream party happen on beach, but I swore and pushed him in beginning when I saw people there who I didn't know or invite. he took all my drunken bs...things went well, or at least I thought. except next day when I woke him up, he suddenly said "ok I did what you asked, you got what you bargained for, now get out of my life, I want my freedom." Since then, he's been cold. he went to work on his own, I went back to my mom's house. I called that night, worrying how he'd go home after tiring day of work, he didn't pick up. I called his coworker to ask so I don't drive down for nothing. but he called screaming and swearing at me for calling his coworker to get a hold of him. I didn't go. I didn't go to school, again my life fell apart. Next day I don't know why I drove down to his work beforehand just wanting to see him, I was afraid of how panel meeting might turn out...but he was frustrated and mad, School laid sanctions of plagiarism, for the paper I wrote in car daily morning dropping/picking him for work, I was tired, pregnant and didn't pay attention to sourcing, ended up facing plagiarism in you of T. Now my graduation, course credit, law school application are affected.

When I need him most he's not there, he doesn't even know. I tried to call him again, but no response. I didn't go home or see him again. I was wrong and careless. I know I have issues from past and it's unfair to seek compensation from him, but I just wish things are OK and he's still there...why do I not function when we fight? How could he do this when I'm going through so much? Did he forget all those times I was there for him? What now?

Answer 5

Get flirty. Get in a good mood. Convince him to not be mad. Make him want you. I've known with experience, but he will soon change his ways. Don't talk to him for a while and he'll get back at you. It works for me, and it should for you too(: Good Luck! Boys these days...

Answer 6

act like it doesn't bother you and then wait for the perfect time then get even

Answer 7

find out why. then try and fix it (if its reasonable, if tis not, it his problem and you should tell him to get over it...nicely)

Answer 8

you worry about it all night and it wont help your life

Answer 9

You've just got to convince him that you're really sorry for whatever you did, if that doesn't work there's always other ways to win him back. ;)