Can you stop loving somebody

Answer 1

this is a tricky question because there are several different types of love. if it is the love from you to an old flame who has hurt you or has moved on themseleves the answer is simply that if it was true love you do not stop loving that person, instead you move on with your life and find someone else that you can love just as much or more. and just so you know if the opposite person who you are trying to stop loving really truly loved you, but has moved on, this does not mean that they have stopped loving you, they are just trying to go on with their lives and would probably want you to be able to do the same.

Answer 2

love just does not go away i am only 18 and when i was dating a guy for 2 years witch is not a long time or anything but when i was dating him i was so in love he maade me feel like i was on top of the world then we thought i was going to have a baby and he left me and that hurt and i never forgave him i was ok in the end and now i am happy because i have love now and i can see that was not love at all. i guess what i am trying to tell you is that you and this guy/girl and not ment to be if he left you or you left him it was a big deal to break off something that was going on for years, you need to move on date other men i know that's hard but jump back into the datting world sweet pee you and ready for true love.

AnswerThat's a very hard thing to do because you have loved this person for a very long time. You didn't explain your circumstances as to whether you were living together, married, or you've just loved this person from afar.

There is no doubt lost love hurts, but many of us have been through it, and because it's a grieving process it will take time to heal. The best thing to do is throw yourself into school or work, start going out with friends and having fun and start dating again. There is that special someone out there for you.

Good luck Marcy

AnswerYou can still love someone and not want to be with them. You are normal to always have feelings for someone. Even if they have wronged you.

im feeling the same way, I've loved this guy for 3 years now, and it hurts so much, but if he dosent return your feelings and you really love him...... let him go. if you really loved him just let him go, that's what i did, it hurt and it still hurts. but letting go is the best way to show how much u love that person, u might never get over them cause they were such a big part of your life, but now they'll just be a big part of your heart. i love you Daniel for the rest of forever.

AnswerForgething someone who you have loved for many years is hard to just say goodbye. Yes it might hurt but if that person really loved you they would have never hurt you in the first place. I personly think that if you love someone let them go and if they come back it because they love you, but if they dont well its time to move on. I had a relashipe that lasted 2 years and i wont lie its this sad, mad, and confused feeling you get. Many people hid what they feel. I did that and it just made me feel worst. So i told a colse friend what i felt. she helped me so much that now that i see that person i don't feel the need of crying. It helps because you get stronger and it gets you back up. So for all them girls that get heart broken dont let yourself down have that fath in yourself. Then next thing you know you stop caring and start meeting new people. Even if he hurt you there will always be someone else there for you.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, once you start to love someone, you can't just "stop." It just isn't that simple. Love is a very complex and powerful emotion. In fact, some people believe it is the only human emotion we cannot consciously control. Nevertheless, in time, you'll find that you have much more love in your heart to give than you knew. Once you realize this, you'll find someone in your life worthy to share that love with. I wish you the best of luck.

ANSWER:

In my own opinion, you can only do one thing, for you to stop loving the person you love is when he hurts you badly enough that all you want is to be far away from him.

Answer 4

i have the same problem too. if you truly love him though you won't be able to stop loving him. you can tell him how you feel if your not shy to tell him about it. if another guy comes up in your life though then maybe, just maybe you will forget him and love the other guy who feels the same way about you. i hope i helped you out. if not then just do what your heart feels like doing. =)

Answer 5

Depends on how much you like them.

ANSWER:

If you really love someone the love will always be there. If you loved someone, and you no longer have the love that you once had for them, then, some love, will continue to remain in your heart for that person.

However, if you loved someone you thought was very special, and they do something that hurts you severely, then, over a period of time the love for them can stop.

Answer 6

Honestly, I don't think there should be a label on who you can and can't love, because love isn't something you can control or "turn off". However, if you ever need to "stop" loving, I'm not gonna lie, it'll be rough. Getting over someone takes time, you'll have to accept the fact that, for whatever reason, you are not permitted to be with that person. You may have regret-filled or "why, oh why!?" type feelings. It's normal, trust me, I've been there. Let time heal and you'll find your new perfect match. Remember - when I say "perfect match" I mean the person you are truly in love with, not something that looks right; follow your heart.

Answer 7

Loving someone who doesn't love you is one of the most hopeless feelings in the world, delete them from your phone so you aren't tempted to re-initiate contact.