How do you stop loving someone who you have loved for years?

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love just does not go away i am only 18 and when i was dating a guy for 2 years witch is not a long time or anything but when i was dating him i was so in love he maade me feel like i was on top of the world then we thought i was going to have a baby and he left me and that hurt and i never forgave him i was ok in the end and now i am happy because i have love now and i can see that was not love at all. i guess what i am trying to tell you is that you and this guy/girl and not ment to be if he left you or you left him it was a big deal to break off something that was going on for years, you need to move on date other men i know that's hard but jump back into the datting world sweet pee you and ready for true love.

AnswerThat's a very hard thing to do because you have loved this person for a very long time. You didn't explain your circumstances as to whether you were living together, married, or you've just loved this person from afar.

There is no doubt lost love hurts, but many of us have been through it, and because it's a grieving process it will take time to heal. The best thing to do is throw yourself into school or work, start going out with friends and having fun and start dating again. There is that special someone out there for you.

Good luck Marcy

AnswerYou can still love someone and not want to be with them. You are normal to always have feelings for someone. Even if they have wronged you.

im feeling the same way, I've loved this guy for 3 years now, and it hurts so much, but if he dosent return your feelings and you really love him...... let him go. if you really loved him just let him go, that's what i did, it hurt and it still hurts. but letting go is the best way to show how much u love that person, u might never get over them cause they were such a big part of your life, but now they'll just be a big part of your heart. i love you Daniel for the rest of forever.

AnswerForgething someone who you have loved for many years is hard to just say goodbye. Yes it might hurt but if that person really loved you they would have never hurt you in the first place. I personly think that if you love someone let them go and if they come back it because they love you, but if they dont well its time to move on. I had a relashipe that lasted 2 years and i wont lie its this sad, mad, and confused feeling you get. Many people hid what they feel. I did that and it just made me feel worst. So i told a colse friend what i felt. she helped me so much that now that i see that person i don't feel the need of crying. It helps because you get stronger and it gets you back up. So for all them girls that get heart broken dont let yourself down have that fath in yourself. Then next thing you know you stop caring and start meeting new people. Even if he hurt you there will always be someone else there for you.