How long is normal before saying I love you?

Answer 1

You should say I love you when you feel it. Some people are worried about scaring off the other person. But you will not know how the other person feels unless you say it. You say it when you feel it, and not because the other person said it. When you say it make sure the moment feels right and the timing is right. The two of you are alone together. To save face, tell the other person that you are about to reveal something and you do not necessarily want any response, but it is something that you must say. And you are okay if the feeling is not mutual but this is something you are now feeling. If you have been in this relationship long enough to feel this way, chances are the other person feels the same but may not have the guts that you have.

Answer 2

First you must know what love is.

Love isn't selfish or self seeking to satisfy something of self.

Love seeks to serve and is never bitter or selfishly angry.

If you are attracted because of something the person; says, does, smells, looks etc...thats not love. That is infatuation, delusion, and lust.

If you think good thoughts about the person with out any thought to self,

If you are wanting the best for them even if it means removing yourself from them,

If you avoid sexual, or abusive thoughts toward the person,

then you might know what love is.

Love also means you will protect them from themselves, gently and full of compassion.

If your doing the good things, they will know you love them, and only a spiritually /intellectually/ emotionally blind person, would not get it, in which case, for your sake, and theirs leave before they become a parasite.

Answer 3

Whenever you feel comfortable saying it. My girlfriend and I were only going out for about 3 weeks and I thought both of us were in love. I said it to her and she said it back. We talked about it to make sure we both ment it and we did. Whenever you feel it to be necessary say it. If she doesn't say it back don't feel bad cuz she may feel scared to. But love is something too complicated to hide, show love you'll feel better.

Answer 4

It may take hours, it may take weeks, it may take longer. Everyone is different and will come to terms with their feelings at different points; they will also have varying levels of confidence in that feeling.

Answer 5

Normal? I would say at least four months. But if you know, then you know. you know?

Answer 6

you can say i love you, when ever you feel that you love the boy/girl but only say it when you mean it words hurt more than actions

Answer 7

It shouldn't take to long. It would mostly depemnd on if he really does love you or not, and dependson if you have treated him as fairly as he treated you.

Answer 8

My opinion is that you should wait until your sure you love the person, you should no when you do.