Be firm!!! Once you say you are going to break up, do not listen to his excuses. Do NOT accept him back or he will just keep harrassing you. If you act like you mean it and stick to your guns, he will eventually leave you alone. Do not answer his phone calls. Do not listen to his whining or threats. If he threatens you, either tell someone, an adult if you are not one, or a police officer if he threatens bodily harm. Most women get locked in a cycle, break up...anger... he is nice trying to get you back.. once he gets you back he is nice for awhile and then it starts over again. If you are firm, it usually works, but if he knows he can manipulate you into taking him back then he will. If you wait and be firm he will turn his attentions else where. They thrive on attention, so if you dont give him any, he will eventually tire of the game. BE FIRM! I always tell my girlfriends that women were born with a deep seated intuition. Fear is a good indicator to listen to. Its sounds like to me, that you know he is manipulative and not good for you. The trick is waiting out his game so that he can turn his attentions else where.
Why would you want your boyfriend to dump you?
Uh breakup with him
First, why is that important? Why is it necessary to tell him? What purpose would it serve? What is your goal? Second, what was the nature of the breakup? Did you break it off with him, he with you, or was it mutual? Were the terms of the breakup civil and sad or nasty and angry? Unless we know that, we really can't answer.
If you want to get ahead in life, manipulate the laws to give you an advantage.
You either do nothing, because you are just trying to get over the breakup, or, you can talk to someone about it because you have breakup anxiety.
she did not breakup with him he did
your friends boyfriend will breakup with your friend, and your friend will get mad at you.
Maybe because he hates to see you angry.
Telling him that "it's not you, it's me."
Put ILU (I'm leving u)