I have problems with my best friend what should i do?

Answer 1

Without going into details here of what the problems are, or what they arise from, the best thing is to make a list of those things that are troubling you, then have a good long think about whether you can fix each item, or is it something only your friend can fix.

If there are things which you cannot fix then you need to have a chat with your friend. They may not know that you are having problems, and they may not be aware that things they do/say/think have been upsetting you.

Talk to your friend and tell them how you feel. Tell them how you value their friendship and want to maintain it.

DO NOT tell them that things are their fault or lay blame on them.

Tell them how YOU feel about certain things and ask them if they can help you feel differently about these things.

The chances are that they will realise that they have been upsetting you without knowing.

Don't be surprised if they react badly - the idea that we are upsetting others often brings denial. They may even storm off. This may be just so that they can get thinking time.

Answer 2

She isn't your best friend then, is she? You need to tell her that you no longer want to be her friend and leave it at that. If you don't like her then she is not your best friend. The best thing that you could do is let her know how you feel, but do it as kind as possible. The more you wait the harder it will get so do it asap. Remember be nice about it but don't beat around the bush.

Answer 3

the best answer to that if they are interrupting you by troubling of anyway of harming you ignore them as long as you can and if in anyway they are interfering with you tell an adult or guardian

Answer 4

What you could say is " We have some slight problems/issues and I think it's best if we weren't friends anymore." I would tell them face to face the TRUTH.