If the boy is 16 and the girl is almost 16 is it wrong if they both want a baby and can their parents say anyhting when he turns 18 and she is only 17?

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Regardless of your age,theres alot more to consider when having a baby.People have this wcrazy idea that at a certain age people are suddenly blessed with more knowledge about things.When your sixteen you can ,when your twenty one you can drink beer,but when your eighteen you can go to war and die for your country.It doesnt make sense. Dont get hung up on the age thing.Ask yourself are you and him realy ready for a baby.Not just emotionaly.When considering having a baby you have to not only think with your heart but with your mind.Is now the right time for it.Money wise,time wise.Ababy takes alot of your time,and the things you want and need and want to do take a back seat.Your both so young and have alot of life ahead of you.Take time to just be married first.In a new marriage,each person requires alot of the other persons time.With a baby along that time is even more stretched out.Forget about the ages thing,ask yourself,"is right now the right time in my life to be married and have a baby".I have four,we started very young too.I wouldn't change any of it,but it was very hard at times,and now there is alot of thing i wish i could have went and done or seen,and so on,but when children are invovled they always come first.Dont fool yourself and think you ve got some great plan to handle it all and make it work.Nothing works ou as planned.Good luck in whatever you do.'