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Sure, it's okay (and normal) to be scared of sex, especially if you are inexperienced. People are often afraid of things that are unfamiliar, and this is part of being human.
Sex, especially sex with another person, makes people anxious because they want to please their partner, and they want to be able to perform as expected. Men are especially vulnerable to "performance anxiety" because a hard penis is usually needed for sexual activity, and the penis isn't always cooperative. The fear itself may sometimes make erection difficult or impossible.
It is important for you to understand that your partner should never, ever ridicule you or make fun of any nervousness or performance issues you might have. Anyone who treats you that way should be ditched. You deserve to be treated with respect and understanding by a sexual partner, and there are plenty of people who will.
Sex is also frightening because it involves being vulnerable to another person, both physically and emotionally. You're letting someone see you in emotionally honest moments, and in potentially embarrassing circumstances (since there are a lot of things about sex that are ridiculous or comical when viewed from outside). So there is a trust issue, and not everyone is ready to extend that trust to others.
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