What is correct you and your mom's or your and your mom's?

Answer 1

Although myself is often used this way, it is always incorrect. The pronoun "I" or "me" should be used instead of "myself", and the context determines which one to use. "Your mother and I" is correct as a subject, but "your mother and me" is the correct form for an object. If you remove "your mother" from the sentence you are considering, it will be much easier to see whether to use "I" or "me".

Examples

1. Your mother and will pick you up after school. Since you would say "I will pick you up after school", and not "Me will pick you up after school", the correct sentence is "Your mother and I will pick you up after school."

2. The Hartmans have invited your mother and to their cookout.

Since you would say "The Hartmans have invited me to their cookout", and not "The Hartmans have invited I to their cookout", the correct sentence is "The Hartmans have invited your mother and me to their cookout."

Answer 2

'My mother and I' would be the correct phrase. When wording compounds using forms of 'me', say it out loud to yourself but reversed. Then, take out the other noun or pronoun and repeat the sentence.

REVERSED: Me and my mother ate dinner. WRONG

Me ate dinner. -- WRONG so it must be I.

Reverse it back using the correct form: My mother and I ate dinner.

REVERSED: Myself and my mother went to the mall.- WRONG

Myself went to the mall. -- WRONG so it must be I.

Reverse it back using the correct form: My mother and I went to the mall.

Be extra careful to not mix "them" and "myself".

WRONG: Them and myself took a walk.

Instead, use a noun in place of "them" and "I" in place of "myself".

My friends and I took a walk. (Split and/or reverse to check the wording: My friends took a walk. I took a walk. If both make sense, combine them into one sentence. If they don't make sense as separate, then you must change how you refer to each subject.)

Answer 3

It depends if the phrase is subject or the object of a sentence.

if it is a subject, the correct term is "she and you," as in "She and you went to the park"

if it is an object, the correct term is "her and you," as in "The milk tasted sour to her and you"

Answer 4

You and your mom's is the correct answer.

Answer 5

She and her mother

Answer 6

Mom and I.