My ex girlfriend broke up with me two months ago. I had health issues recently and she has expressed interest in talking to me more and said wished we talked more. She apperently has a new bf.?

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ADD ON FROM CROWS:She broke up with me.. well she said it was because of our arguments we had. We talked about it.. thought we had figured it out, then she dumped me out of nowhere, got back together for a week then dumped me again. She kept saying "I don't know what to do"

she called a couple times crying, texted for a bit. Then went No contact for a couple weeks when i called her on her bday in october. Things have been warmer since. I had to pull her teeth for her to admit she had a new bf though.

AnswerMaybe she has just decided that you are not so bad of a man and she wants to e friends.

She may have broke up with you maybe because she just wanted to be friends.You never Know.

AnswerOften when an ex contacts you, it is out of curiosity, nostalgia, or guilt. Breaking up with someone can make the person feel guilty about falling out of love and hurting the other person. When a person dumps someone, it's not unusual for the dumper to still have some feelings for the other person--just not enough to want to be in a relationship with them.

She may want to keep in contact to enjoy the things she likes and misses about you, without having to be in a relationship with you. In some cases, the ex is hoping to put you on the back burner---trying to see if you still have feelings for them in case their current relationship doesn't work out. Rarely is it because they want to be in a relationship with you right away.

If you still have feelings for her (after only two months broken up, it's natural to) it will be very difficult for you to only be friends, simply because it will lead to false hopes of getting back together with her. Don't contact her; let her be the one to do the contacting, but don't pin your hopes on it leading to anything more.