Sometimes when two people spend time together, even as friends, potentially more can easily develop. If you are in a serious relationship with this guy tell him you don' feel comfortable with him having a female roommate and ask him to make a change in that situation for the sake of your relationship.
If he doesn't see your point, then his feelings are not at the same level as yours. It is up to you if you want to accept this sort of treatment from him.
If you are serious, it is considered disrespectful to you and your relationship for him not to change the situation. Move on if so. If he's disrespectful now and won't change, he will be worse later. If he decides to change because you want to break up with him, it will only send the message that you won't tolerate being disrespected, and everything will be fine.
Don't let him string you along or give you sob stories that he can't find a male roomie. Those are not legitimate excuses.
Ashley menendez
"should"? Seriously, there is no "should". I'm a fourteen-year old female and I have never dated or had a boyfriend - steady or otherwise. Talk to your parents and get their input on this situation...
A woman can get any roommate she wants, straight, gay, male or female. It doesn't matter.
I do not have a boyfriend because I am a heterosexual male. If a female were to address this issue, I would advise her to let her boyfriend change her as little as possible, since anyone who truly loves you should love you as you are.
Clarification needed. Are you male or female?
dump him
Roomate with benefits, is when two people live together and occassionally hook up and have sex. They can be a heterosexual male and female, bisexual, or homosexual relationships.
tell your boyfriend how you feel about his female friend
No, it is not always cheating if a boyfriend emails an old female friend from school. Long before he met you he probably had female and male friends. Good communication skills are needed here and you can never start too early. You should let your boyfriend know how you feel about it. If you were smart you would tell him to have her met you and him at a restaurant to catch up on old times.
Usually, boxes of chocolate are good for male or female...... (word from experience)
That would probably be a good idea. You can't let him push you around like that if you're not going to push back.
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